What Body Part Is More Important?

Question

I want surgery to fix my flabby baby belly and my breasts lifted and made larger after nursing 2 kids. I can only afford one procedure this coming year and the other in 2008. Which procedure should I get first. My belly looks flat when I lay down but so do my breasts and when I am upright my breasts look good but my belly squinches up. Which is the lesser evil of the 2??

My belly will never look good with simple crunches, I have alot of loose skin. I can't decide myself because they both bother me. I want to fix the belly for how my clothes fit and my breasts to look better for sex so I lean towards the belly out of practicality but want an outsiders opinion. Like if you saw a thin woman naked for the first time which would bother you more, saggy belly or saggy breasts?

Answer 1

It really depends on what is most important to YOU!

Answer 2

The most necessary part is the heart, as we cant live without it. Trying to look so perfect and risking death as sometimes happens in surgury or disfigurement is just silly, tho you have the right to do just that. We need to be more focused on what the inside of us, our hearts and minds are like. Having saggy parts is NOT evil, its a natural part of aging and having kids.

Evil is not hearing and obeying God. Is having a perfect body worth rising your life for. Your kids need a mom, flabby belly and saggy boobs or not. If either of those procedures ended your life, they would not have you, but onlly be able to bury a perfectly shaped mom. HMMMM???? Yes, ppl do die in these surguries. I had a friend lose her little boy, just to tonsil surgury. It happens. We as a nation focus only on looks and things. such materialism and pride. When God wants us to focus on Him, and our family, and being the best we can be for Him. He doesnt care about your boobs or your belly. Learn to love yourself for who you arent, and not hate yourself for what you arent. Noone stays perfect. WE all fall at some point, even the men do. As a former cna, let me tell you, the men fall too....... gravity rules.. Just have a beautiful inside and the rest of you will be beautiful too. God bless you and may everything go great for you for the rest of your lives. and God bless your children too. I dont judge you. Not my place.. just trying to get you to rethink your decision and see how valuable you are,just like you are. There isonly one YOU, and you are special to God. Learn to love that. I always fought the battle of gaining weight. Now I eat heatlhy and all, but still could lose some according to the charts. BUt, I love how I look, God made me, and once I got that attitude, ppl no longer even noticed the weight, they see me for me, and its all good.
We must love ourselves, before anyone else can. I dont have to fit the mold of anyone, let alone the Hollywood image that is causes such eating disorders, and even young kids are going under the knife for some imperfection. Some are getting bigger boobs and they arent even grown yet. ridiculous. Just think about it. Pray and wait for God to answer you. God bless you

Answer 3

Well....as long as you are doing this for yourself and not to please someone else, you may as well go for the belly job. It is possible to lift your breasts through exercises but I have not heard of anyone being able to lose excess belly skin without surgery. Whichever you decide to do, please, please do all the research you can to find the best doctor possible to perform the surgery. There have been so many people (victims) of malpractice it's unreal. So be very cautious. Good luck.

Answer 4

Do a lot of sit up's & crunches and get the boob lift. Then save the money you would of spent on your belly and put it in your new kids college fund.

Answer 5

ask your husband....i would choose the belly

Answer 6

all parts ur body is ur temple