We have been together 21 years and we love each other deely. He just isnt interetsed in sex with me anymore. We both oogle at guys on the street or when we are out for the night but he says he has no interest.
Has this happened to you? I really miss sex with him. Did you manage to break through the problewm? Please tell me how
Eddie
2006-11-28 10:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by eddie9551 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i haven't had this happen to me, but i know others who have.
this could be anything. if he is on any kind of medication it can effect the libido. if not you might suggest that he see a doctor to rule out any physical problems.
if everything turns out o.k. you might want to try counseling. could he be depressed? i hope that you find the problem and work it out.
good luck
2006-11-28 10:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've been together that long, the two of you are probably up there in age--not old, but not kids anymore either. It's normal for sexual urges to wane as you age.
Also, make sure you haven't let yourself go. Have you gained a bunch of weight? Do you make an effort to get a haircut regularly and take care of your other hygene and clothing? I know it's not nice to think that the way you look should be enough to make your love lose interest, but the fact of the matter is, it just does.
And, uh, this is a sensitive question, but if you're on the bottom, er, uh, maybe there's not as much friction as there used to be? I don't know any other way to say it.
Maybe he's self-concious about something. Has HE gained weight? Any problems with "function"? Is he under undue stress because of something else? Sometimes stress or depression can lessen desire.
Have you tried to get him to talk about what's going on? Maybe you should. And there's always couples counselling.
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2016-11-27 19:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by berson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-28 10:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I am not gay....so yeah it could be he is back in straight territory
2006-11-28 10:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Hendawg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you try being with a woman?
2006-11-28 11:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by boobhead 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋