k there is this gurl that is bigger then me... she is like a size 5 and i am a 0 (so u will picture how much bigger she is then me) she wants to fight me and we r 14 and freshmen in highschool well she is TRYING to go from PREP to PUNK....and this is a gurl who will cry if she breaks a nail and i tld her to her face that it wasnt really workin 4 her and now she wants to fight me.....i am not scared of her i just dont feel like gettin in2 trouble cuz i already got in2 trouble 4 threatening a gurl and she turned me in2 the office and i got in2 a lOT of trouble so i really dont feell like fightin i just wanna tell her off!!! today i didnt feel good and so i left rite after she gripped me out but she thinks its because i am afraid of her!!! i am anything but afraid of her! she is afraid she would break a nail! but what should i do???? i mean if she wants to fight i will fight her but i no ill lose! i got a cuz who will kick her *** shld i tell her that? cuz renae will fite cilla!!!
2006-11-28 10:03:00 · 20 answers · asked by xjenniloux :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well.. im a freshy in hs too but did you really have to tell her that it's not working for her from prep - punk? i mean it's not even your problem. how would you like it if someone just went up to you and said that it dont look good on you being all preppy/ghetto/gothic or w.e.? i mean if she is the one who wants to start beef with you and you dont want to fight her then just go to the office. if you dont want to get in trouble simple thing is go tell your parents/guidence/or dean. it's hs, i know they show in movies and shows how girls fight and **** but seriously man grow up. it's not going to matter 10 years from now that you fcked up some girl or w.e. why make a stupid choice of fighting someone when you can just walk away? anyway i say you just tell and adult before you get into trouble.
2006-11-28 10:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by SUPER. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not one for fighting it is not allways the answer to things you should use your head and out smart this no brainer dont want to break a nail. Think of your words for a minute if shes scared of breaking a nail then shes not going to fight its all words. A ppularity thing you could probally whoop her your self keep your esteem high about the situation no matter how big she is. The preps can always be outwitted money cant buy every thing! Use your head with this situation you are in like i saideven if a fight breaks out make sure she hits you first!!! Trust me less trouble for you and then it self defense have plenty of friends and try to have a teacher near by to see the first hit!
2006-11-28 10:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by out dated prod! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This revenge, eye-for an-eye, peer pressure, fighting thing only leads to a downwards spiral; ending up in life's basement. I hope you're not too young and immature to realise this. The steps you take now will create the person you will be for many years to come. Take a little time to serious think about who you are and who you want to be. To hell with what everyone else thinks. Look beyond the crazy things around you and set a path for your future. It's hard to do at your age but give it a try. Good luck! also .. try associating with a better group of friends, if you can find any. I've got faith in you - after all, you did take the time to ask your question so it must be important to you. I hope I helped, I really do!
2006-11-28 10:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lost Shadow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hopefully she will get over it, she seems like she is just trying to fit in with something new.
Why is a size 0 chick threatening someone anyhow?
If you were already in trouble you should have kept a low profile, and not started trouble.
Tell your cuz to come along, but try to resolve it, or you both might end up getting thrown out of school. You really don't want this on your permanent record. Trust me in a few years this sh it will seem very silly.
2006-11-28 10:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like little girl drama.
let it go.
is there something about her that brings out something in yourself?
do you have to be in her face at school all day or is your school big enough that you could kick it on the other side.
just let it go.
what are you trying to prove by fighting her and expressing your feelings about how it doesnt work for her?
what is good for her may not meet your standards but you are only in control of you.
if you have an opiinion that is going to piss people off then get use to fighting if you are chosing to express it.
and if you like to fight then maybe you should seee a counselor cause maybe there is more issues going on here with you.
2006-11-28 10:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she looking for a fight and your cousin kicks her a** that is her problem. It is always best to use violence as a last resort but don't let someone push you around. If that is the case then the bully will get what she deserves. And better the bully get beaten up than you.
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2016-10-07 22:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by coyne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, tell her that you dont want to fight her, but look her straight into the eyes so that she knos that you mean BUSINESS. tell a counselor, even if you were in trouble earlier, everyone has their hour of need. Also, avoid being alone and stay with BIG groups so that she cant single you out.
2006-11-28 10:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her about your cuz b/c then you'll really look like a punk...if she is like you said then she's probally all talk, so you should stand up to her and act like your gona kick her @ss BUT BRING YOUR COUSIN WITH YOU!!! that way if you actually do start fighting your cousin can step in.
2006-11-28 10:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell an adult that u trust. o ya and tll the bully that u just got through from being in trouble so u dont want to fite. but add in, i dont care if i fite u but u could easily turn me in
2006-11-28 10:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋