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2006-11-28 09:54:40 · 21 answers · asked by abakay93 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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I would tell them how I feel about their fighting and how it is affecting my life and how it is instilling negativity into my future - by creating a poor example of how to cope with life and relationships.

2006-11-28 09:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by nuovoterra 3 · 1 1

You have asked a question that has been asked a million times before ,,,, You didn't mention your age but I'm guessing you might be in your teens ,,,, So you may or may not have a couple of options here ,,,, One is that you could just simply leave the house no matter what time of day or night it might be and make sure you slam the door loudly on your way out ,,,, Sit in the yard until one of them comes out to find you and then tell which ever one it is what is bothering you ,,,, The other option is to just slam your way into the room where they are arguing and scream at them that if they want to argue then do it where you can't hear it ,,,, that all this term oil and up set bothers you to no end ,,,, Show them how up set you get when they are up set with each other ,,,, You might even consider telling them that you want to move out to find some place else to live just to have peace and quiet ,,,, Good luck with this ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,

2006-11-28 18:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My parents used to fight everyday too but don't do what i did i ran away and the cops found me at a friends house like 6 hours later. U can trust a friend just not there patents. when i got back home i just told them what i was thinking and the cop said that i was right i was at the point i was drinking what ever i could find and everyone was on my side because i could not take it any more. Just tell them how u feel and hope it works it did for me.

2006-11-28 18:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by mad dog 3 · 0 1

well if your parents are still together, and are rational you should At down and talk to them about how you are feeling. But you have to make sure this is at a good time when nothing bad is going on and you have to make sure you don't yell back at them, unless its absolutely necessary...

if you can't talk to them than you should probably have somewhere you can go to escape from the fighting like a nearby friends house, the park, a coffee shop, etc...

if it gets really bad you may need to bring somebody else into the problem. if your parents are simply going through a rough spot then they just need your help and support but if this is a persistent problem then they may need professional or legal help.

**i hope your okay and everything works out**

2006-11-28 18:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by jesus freak 1 · 0 1

As you can see there are many others in the same situation.

You have taken the first step and asked for help....better to vent and talk about it to someone....anyone

Is there someone close to you who you can talk to....another adult Grandmother, aunt...even someone at school?

Don't worry about what other people might think/ it is not your fault and what your parents are doing is wrong. They might be
so used to fighting with each other they don't even realize how bad it is effecting you.

Guess you've already tried to tell them, ignore it or other things and nothing has helped.

I would write a letter to your Mom....and one to your Dad.

Tell them each separately what you feel/ what has happened and
make sure they read it when you are not around...in school or
staying at friends

It takes two to argue maybe one will see how the yelling is affecting you....hang in there.

Wish you well........................

2006-11-28 18:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by darcy m 7 · 0 1

let them know nicely when they are not fighting how you feel aobut this. then if they chose not to hear you then, wait til the next fight to jump in and express yourself verbally and emotionally to give them a reality check. this worked for us from our kids. but we did not stop fighting. when adults fight in front of the kids, there are lots of selfish childish behaviors that the adults need too work on otherwise everyone suffers. we split up because one of had to make a decision to hear the kids and now that we are split up we are working on those negative behavior so we can possibley re unite, hope this helps.

2006-11-28 17:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0 1

I would move, because its not worth the stress. Your parents should be divorced if they cant get along, they should not be fighting in front of everyone making everyones life hell.

2006-11-28 17:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bonzai Betty 6 · 0 1

I would just tell them to stop. Parents are affected if the child has something to say.

2006-11-28 17:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Magnim Opus 3 · 0 1

im sorry you have to go through that! my parents fought everyday day too, the best thing i can tell you to do, and i dont know if your religious or not, but i would always pray that things would get better and believe it or not they have! its taken time, but things are better now

2006-11-28 17:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by shelly s 1 · 0 1

I have learn i was one of those parents . take your sibling and go to the nearest child services if that dont wake them up get a divorce

2006-11-28 18:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by curious 2 · 0 1

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