Prayer, Prayer, Prayer! If y'all are religious I suggest joining a church, if you have not already. Maybe join a support group and just keep loving him, I will pray for y'all and God bless you and your family.
2006-11-28 08:47:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Well honestly, counseling is really the best option. My bf had some hard times after he got home from his deployment to Iraq. He's been through counseling twice now and is doing much better. But if you're really unwilling to do the counseling route, the only thing you can do is try your best to work it out yourselves. He's gone through a traumatic experience and it's going to take time for him to get back to normal. The best thing you can do is be as supportive as you can and let him know as often as possible how much you love him and are thankful that he's back and safe. Maybe you could also invite other family members over for a get together of sorts as a welcome home/thanks for serving the country party. Good luck!
2006-11-28 08:49:05
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answered by two_kee_kees 4
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I am so sorry, but counseling is the only thing that is going to help him. You don't understand what he is going through and he needs real help, you are not going to be able to fix this for him. I have 3 brothers in the military and they all seek counseling just for the release of the things that they go through. You can show him your support and let him know that you are there, but you can't fix him no matter how much you want to. This has nothing to do with the love that you and your kids have for him.
2006-11-28 08:54:45
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answered by buxomkity 2
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count variety your blessing sweetheart. i'm a clean protection rigidity spouse and my husband is leaving in July to bypass to Iraq and that i cry well-known just to think of roughly being without him. i assume you have each and every emotion a man or woman could probable journey impressive now and that i choose to easily take a 2d and count variety your advantages. You asked God to deliver him homestead early and God heard your prayer and thank God he even got here homestead in any respect, some went over there and did no longer make it decrease back. i do no longer choose to be harsh so please do no longer take it that way yet your husband is courageous and honorable and if scuffling with for our rights in this u . s . a .. don't be egocentric and proceed to desire that God won't purely carry you and your husband nearer yet in addition the baby. Your love on your husband shouldn't exchange for the reason which you have a baby now, you will nonetheless get to spend time with the two one in each and every of them. maximum of protection rigidity different halves would particularly choose to be on your shoes now because of the fact a large variety of guys won't come decrease back. I pray which you fairly think of concerning the entire subject and have extra effective outlook on issues......god bless you and tell your husband I say thank you. I had a query at here until eventually now this week with a similar themes of being lonely whilst my husband leaves and the folk here on yahoo solutions are particularly solid respectable people who care approximately you, i exchange into dropped at tears with a large variety of the responses I gained and it helped me to have a metamorphosis of heart and with a bit of luck you will too. solid luck
2016-10-04 11:48:39
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answered by ? 4
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As an ex Viet Nam Medivac Pilot and POW, I saw alot of cases like yours, where the injured had family back home and both couldnt be reunited for various reasons. Even though it is real hard for you to deal with this, you still have family nearby, but being injured in war overseas leaves you by yourself except for wartime friends and hospital staff. He definitely needs to hear that you love him greatly even though you are apart and that all of you are real proud of him and his buddies. Even though its repititous to you he needs to hear it constantly. Letters and pictures will help him heal immensely and it makes time pass by quickly. It doesnt really matter what you talk about or how boring it sounds to you, its his only tie to the real world where they all want to be and it shows him that you really care and that most of all will help him heal. Just keep your letters uplifting and as happy as possible. Try not to seem over worrying as this will only cause him to worry more about you than getting well himself. You can even tell him that us ex vets greatly appreciate their service to keep our country free and that he and his buddies are in our prayers and wish him God speed in his recovery and to come home alive. I wish you all the best in dealing with this challenge and will keep you in our prayers too to help you in this time of need.
2006-11-28 09:00:00
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answered by Arthur W 7
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The best thing to do is just keep yourself busy
the more you stay stagnant and think about him
(which sort of sounds heartless but bare with me)
You need to think about it less and know yourself that it was a decision he made...He's doing what he loves to do...
keep busy
:)
Everything should be fine
2006-11-28 08:47:24
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answered by NO 2
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His command or the Veteran's Administration (VA) should have counseling options for him. If he's not willing to look into it, you need to. Also, if he's unwilling to go in, see if someone from his old unit or the VA can come by your home to talk to him.
2006-11-28 08:52:35
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answered by bionicbookworm 5
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Be there for him and give him time, speak to some of his squaddies to see what it was like out there then you might get an inside picture of how he is feeling, maybe hint for one of them to speak to him but counseling maybe the best option
2006-11-28 08:48:44
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm a vietnam vet tell him to go to a va hospital and seek help in a group session. that will be his best bet . i also work for the va.
2006-11-28 08:51:28
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answered by cowboy 4
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hmmm.... thats really bad. but the next time you see him you have to confess your concern and soon enough, you will feel better about yourself. or you can probably just wait until he gets better and make sure he is really careful!! hope he is okay!
2006-11-28 08:50:20
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answered by Anonymous
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