We are seperated because it was what she wanted (grass was greener). Now it is a seesaw of come back, we are through. Is this normal? Her life has taken a down turn since I left.
2006-11-28 08:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
2006-11-28 08:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not normal. Leaving someone is a big decision that affects more than just yourself. So you better be damn well sure its what you want. I can understand maybe making the mistake once but no more than that. And even once another man isn't a good enough excuse for me.
2006-11-28 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what my husbands ex did. She wanted him back after we got together, but before that she wanted nothing to do with him. I think its they have seperation issues. They dont know how life would really be like without you. Even my husbands ex's life went down because he wasnt there for financial support anymore (she had been using him for that). Let her go permanently she can fend for herself she is a big girl.
2006-11-28 16:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal when put in a category of immaturity and playing games, and it means nothing else. And she will probably keep doing it as long as she sees that she can. So u can either shut the door completly or keep it cracked for her to keep running in and out. I have a motto, once u gone thats it.
2006-11-28 16:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's probably why she wants you back, she needs you to get back up again. only you will know when you've had enough, I've never been big on the whole break up to make up thing. i find it very immature, i don't think it's normal. i don't know any married couples that act like that. does she come back to you in between boyfriends? get rid of her...
2006-11-28 16:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It called confusion and you want to be with someone who knows that being with you is what they want so really since you know how it is do you want to be on the emotional roller-coaster or not
2006-11-28 16:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal. Do yourself a favour and move forward.
2006-11-28 17:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb.
2006-11-28 16:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its normal, but its up to you to either take her back or not
2006-11-28 16:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋