Does anyone know how to make myself orgasm fast?
My husband doesn't last that long, I take forever!
I want to "finish" when he does. He thinks I don't like sex with him because it takes me so long.
Rather than tell him that he "finishes" too fast, I would rather get mine done too.
PLease Help!
2006-11-28 08:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by mistycaldwell2000 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Maybe not a quick orgasm, but you should tell your husband to give you foreplay enough to get you off and then let him go at it. That way you both get yours.
2006-11-28 08:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Janhellyca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My current girlfriend lasts for a lot longer time than any previous girlfriend I have had. At first it was really bothering me cos I thought I was suddenly crap in bed. I normally finish quicker as well because I think she is hot and just being with her is a buzz.
Anyway, after foreplay I go straight down on her first and bring her to orgasm with my tongue. Now she is relaxing alot more with me and rather than following the same process now she gets crazy and starts jumping on me and she even had one of those wet/squirt orgasms when I was f'ing her a couple of weeks back.
I think going down on her really helped as it got her used to having an orgasm with me and now she tells me what she likes, we mix it up, sometimes one of us doesn't come while the other does... just no rules and neither of us is that bothered.
I think cos we both know now that either of us can have a nice orgasm any time we are together if we really needed one its just become less of an issue and makes everything more fun?
2006-11-28 09:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What always helped me with my ex when he finished too quick was while having sex with him I would take a vibrator or use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris and I'd have a very good orgasm and I'd finish right around the time he did.
2006-11-28 10:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys your age can reach orgasm in 30 seconds if they want to, so you need to change to a more effective technique. Do it the same way as most boys do - use some lube and rub your fist over the expose head (if you are circumcised) or roll your foreskin forwards and backwards over the head, inside your fist. It's not rocket science. Most guys can work that out for themselves.
2016-05-22 23:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some experts say that vaginal orgasm is a myth, because most of our orgasms are due to clitoris stimulation. So why not try to do it in a position that helps you do just that? Try having sex with you on top. You can control movement, stimulation, etc. And he sure will like the view...
2006-11-28 08:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by rebeca_16_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vibrator
Tell him you like sex with him you just can't orgasm that way he gets off right? and if you have to do it another way he should not get upset
2006-11-28 13:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get some more foreplay in there (oral, kissing in sensitve places). try doing this for about half an hour before sex. tell him to masturbate before hand or there are creams and nazal sprays to slow him down, nazal sprays work better as they don't take the feeling away from sex.
2006-11-28 08:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens 2 me sometime i just use my vibrator because he let me know when he is about to u know what so i take my vibrator and place it on my cl*t and then we end up letting go together
2006-11-28 08:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by two boyz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a vibrator while you have sex.
Easiest if done dog-style.
He probably won't like it though.
2006-11-28 08:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply a vibrator to clitoris during sex.
2006-11-28 08:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by bess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋