my wife walked out on me and my son and now i dont know where to go from here i loved her so much and it hurts alot at time i dont know how i would get through this moment in life......
2006-11-28 08:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by elijahatienza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to be strong for your son's sake and satisfy his needs. Maybe move? Where did she go? Sounds like you don't need her anyways. What kind of wife/mother could leave her family? You deserve better. Stick it out. Time heals all wounds and make sure you put your son first!!!
2006-11-28 08:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a time to turn your eyes heavenward and ask God to give you strength. Get in touch with a male friend that you are very close to, someone who is patient and willing to pray with you and spend some time counseling with you. What you're going through is probably going to be the roughest journey you've ever been on, so you need to turn to God for guidance and comfort. He loves you; He knows what you are going through. He knows what you did wrong; He knows what your wife did wrong. God wants you two together as a family unit - not split like this.
Ask around to find a good Church if you do not have one; a Church that has counseling services that will help you during this rough patch, and help you and your wife reconcile. Don't give up yet - if there is ANY hope, then you need to try. Your son needs you, and your wife does too (she just doesn't see that right now - she is too full of anger at this time and is blinded).
Please don't give up -get a support group, and do what it takes to win her heart back - even if it means that you make a PERMANENT change to something about your character. Be serious about making a turn-about and stick with it, if it will save your marriage.
2006-11-28 16:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look to your Sons future. In life you always cn count on your fingers all your good riends and have some fingers left over. Seel guidance from them or a rusted relative. They say love conquers all, but sometimes itsnot enough. Remember not only did she walk out on you, but your son, now what mother would do that?? think about it, and best of luck for the future
2006-11-28 16:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a serious reason why she walked out or did she just don't care anymore about you and your son?
If she has a reason, make sure you go to her and say sorry and that you can truly change but if she just didn't care, try to forget about her because she's not worth your worry.
You're a very sensitive man, good luck.
2006-11-28 16:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-28 16:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough situation to have happen to you. Believe it or not, but, in time the pain will not be as bad as it is right now. Meanewhile, stay strong and do not do anything that will keep you from seeing your son. Talk to your friends and family. Hopefully, they will be supportive of you and help you thru this bad time in your life. Also, trust in god and believe that he is always with us even in our worst of times. I hope it all works out for you. Goodluck! Stay strong, and move on in your life.
2006-11-28 16:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by debo3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
frist step you need to go to the court house get a restraining order. this gives you 2-3 months of temp.custody of your son. during this months get an attorny to get full custody.you dont need to worry about an divore anything like that untill your ready.the reason for this is to make sure you and your son stay together.you get the child support.she walked out on you.remember that, you need to be strong for your kid be normal get this done soon.this will protant you butt. good luck
2006-11-28 16:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by cheta_lindseygarza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its funny how people post this kind of questions,just go get a new one she probably got tired of u there is nothing to do to bring her back and wahtever u do u put ur son first cos u owe him an obligation,my bad i forgot u said u got married just pray u dont get to pay spouse and child support even though the child is with u
2006-11-28 16:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with a friend. don't be alone. or spend time doing active things with your son. have faith that things will get easier with time. see a therapist to help talk through your feelings. it will work out. everything always does and sometimes for the best. good luck.
2006-11-28 16:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by vlm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest doing the following. they are in no particular order.
Talk to your son, and tell him that you love him
Open a bottle of wine, and take a drink
breathe
pick something up, while your son isn't around, that belonged to your wife, and smash it on the floor.
Sweep
breathe.
breathe
breathe
2006-11-28 16:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by corkscrewpirate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋