I`m a divorced mother, having a new reelationship, but I work a lot, and also trying to get my University Degree, he is a relly good guy and I love him very much but the routine is killing us... give me some ideas to get rid of it and bring our beutiful relationship back!
2006-11-28 08:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by lobita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
much about life is routine and it sounds like you have a very full plate....hope that he is in this for the long haul and if he is then he will understand the pressures you are under and try to make things easier for you....try making dates for just the two of you....doesn't have to be expensive or for long periods of time but quality time that only the two of you share. Make the very most of the time you do have together and shake up the routine a little....climb in the shower with him in the morning....put a love note in his coat pocket....send him a card in the mail telling him how much you love and appreciate him....have a picnic in the back yard instead of lunch or dinner in the house....think of some fun spontaneous things that you can do to spice it up a bit and make the routine feel less difficult...good luck
2006-11-28 08:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can never bring back the first couple months of a relationship,but you can make it more interesting.it is very hard to change when you are so busy,but try different things ,be a little crazy,make a surprise for him,put on something sexy and have sex were you never did before.Change the subjects of your conversations,do something that he really likes.
2006-11-28 16:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a date night where you go out and have fun. Find a babysitter and go out to dinner, dancing, and drinks then go to one of those fun stores and buy some toys and come home and have wild sex. That will break the routine.
2006-11-28 16:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only two things needed:
1) A Baby Sitter
2) Victoria's Secret lingerie (something from the "slutty" section
2006-11-28 16:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lil' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.- go to the zoo
2.- go out for the weekend to some place you did not consider before.
3.- take dance class together (that is a great thing)!
2006-11-28 16:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the time you guys have together, try to do some exciting things like have sex outside or something. do something exotic
2006-11-28 16:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he say for ideas??
2006-11-28 16:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pounce on him and have crazy sex in an unusual location.
2006-11-28 16:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Miz Enriques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your lazy a.s.s and do something.
2006-11-28 16:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever try kinky sex,spanking ,hair pulling,anal??
2006-11-28 16:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋