Fantasy Roll Playing (Ladies Perspective please)?

Question

Okay now, this truely is a serious question. My wife has a fantasy about having sex with several men one after another. She keeps bringing this up to me about wanting to be blindfolded, and having me bring in 3 or 4 different guys to have intercourse with her...without her knowing who they are. I've done a good bit of checking around (for health and descreetion purposes) and I've even asked her if she's sure she would want to go through with it.... she still says she wants to. The only thing like this we've ever done close to this is I've fixed her up with a fella she met online once and we both found it pretty exciting plus she had the time of her life sexually.
I've found 3 suitable prospects after much searching so the question is: Should I give her this fantasy and how can I keep her safe while it's going on?

Please no smart judgemental comments... either address the question or respectfully move on!

Answer 1

Ok here i go again.. I think if you both are ok with fulfilling this fantasy then by all means go for it.. I would love to date a man or marry one that was confident in himself and willing to do this.. So long as it is going to turn you on and your wife i see nothing wrong..

Keeping her safe...Just be sure to meet up with these people for a drink and scope them out.. I would suggest maybe a online site such as alt.. there you can find guys and or women who are into helping a guy out.. Plus you can search your area code.. But i bet it will all be ok.. i would still suggest condoms no matter what so make sure these guys can keep it up with one on..

Answer 2

First rule: no means no
Second rule: no drinking

For additional safety you may want a good friend to be included as one of the guys. Someone you wont mind sharing your wife with in the future. The over way to go is have someone call the house every half hour and if you don't pick up they are to call the cops. Fantasies are great in your head, but making them real can be such a pain.

Answer 3

Have you tried just having her blindfolded at all? I'd try that first to see if that is the real appeal of the fantasy. Perhaps even putting her into bondage so she cannot control what you do. It may be the total lack of power that is what she wants.

You could do this and approach her in completely different ways, hence pretending to be three different guys. The two of you can role play this together.

I guess what I'm really saying is that sometimes the idea is much more appealing than the reality turns out to be.

While my husband and I enjoy our fantasies, we have yet to involve another person in them. I don't really understand that part of sexual fantasies.

Answer 4

My opinion .... I would not go there ! If she is fantasizing about it, I don't care how open of a relationship you have, it spells TROUBLE. Personally, I don't believe in "sharing" my man with ANYBODY. Call me selfish in that sense ! I would be completely offended & broken hearted if he told me he wanted to be with 3-4 other women at the same time ? I understand people do these things, for the life of me I can't figure it out. If I'm not happy "sexually" with who I'm with and can't fulfill my fantasies WITH him and him only, then I've got no business being in that relationship. My opinion only and I am in a very long term relationship. I TRULEY think that if it happens, it will be trouble and quite possibly, you may have trouble if it DOESN'T happen, if you know what I mean.

Answer 5

Fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our sexuality. They are either taken from past experiences or may even be entirely imaginary. Sometimes these fantasies are taboo, or socially unacceptable, therefore they are only available through fantasy. Group sex is very popular one among the ladies. "The freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously is incredibly erotic."
This one in my opinion is socially unacceptable. It is much better for you and her sake to keep fantasize. The presume that in addition to the excitement from the group sex she wants to humiliate you. Maybe it is warning sign, and you should make an effort to find out why.

Answer 6

You need to be there, of course, to keep her safe - she's trusting you to orchestrate this for her, so it's not like she's going behind your back - that's good. If you feel the gentelmen are suitable candidates then that's the biggest thing, you sound like you care about your wife and her safety so your opinion is surely good.

Answer 7

If you found them and you are there then I think it would be safe. You must really love her and care about her needs. You sound like a great guy and maybe she will give you the same in return,, another girl? Good Luck

Answer 8

I think that you should ask yourself, do i love my wife? does my wife love me? If your wife wants to do freaky things like that with guys that she don't know then she does not love you. you have to face that because it's the truth. why would you want to share your wife? do you care about her? if you truly do, then you Will tell her that what she is doing is wrong. let her have all the fantasies she want to have. if she wants to see other guys, then let her go. she doesn't deserve you neither you deserve her. she is trying to use you in the process of her fantasy and you are too blind to see that.

Answer 9

Man, I wish you were my husband. Go for it and make sure you join in.

Answer 10

Well, since I'm not a lady, I can't give you my perspective.