2006-11-28 08:06:28 · 5 answers · asked by tim k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get attorney! There your kids and don't stop fighting for them.
2006-11-28 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there abuse? She can get protection of keeping yours and her children safe and protected, and herself and goes under a child protection team.
If not, may be she just going to mother's to get the anger out and work on the issues before facing you. give her some time to respond, but don't yell and screamed that is not a good idea in front of the kids.
calm down, and look at all the issues, think about all the nagging and complaints that she griped about, and look on your accountable behavior, where did you go wrong>
don't dwell on anger, but try to fix it in appriated and sacrficing and willing to be selffishness, to work with her.
Clean up the house, make it inviting for the wife and kids come home, that they feel safe to come home to.
Don't throw away or break up the wife's stuff, restore the environment that the argunment took place, and let your wife to know you are at a calmed situation, and willing to forgive all of her mishaps and ask forgiveness!
Best of luck.
2006-11-28 08:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is you are leaving out some details as to why she left. If she left because you were abusive then she has every right to keep you from the kids. Now if she just left you because she just didn't want you anymore then she doesn't have any right to keep the kids from you. After all they are your kids to. For the kids sake you need to continue to try to talk to her and if that doesn't work then you will have to go the legal route. But try to work it out first.
2006-11-28 08:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to collect her thoughts, call your lawyer if needed. She might be worried that u will hurt her or the kids, there is some reason she is hiding and it better be a good one because she could get into trouble for hiding the kids from their natural father.Talk to someone like a shrink ASAP!
2006-11-28 08:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go through the family court of law.As a father you are entiltle to see your children every second weekends.you could also appy for joint custody.But for now ,for your childrens sake dont argue with your wife infront of your children as this will damage them psychologically .
2006-11-28 08:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_freelove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋