Okay now, this truely is a serious question. My wife has a fantasy about having sex with several men one after another. She keeps bringing this up to me about wanting to be blindfolded, and having me bring in 3 or 4 different guys to have intercourse with her...without her knowing who they are. I've done a good bit of checking around (for health and descreetion purposes) and I've even asked her if she's sure she would want to go through with it.... she still says she wants to. The only thing like this we've ever done close to this is I've fixed her up with a fella she met online once and we both found it pretty exciting plus she had the time of her life sexually. Should I give her this fantasy and how can I keep her safe while it's going on?
2006-11-28 08:05:18 · 6 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please leave the snide smart remarks in elementary school ........ either address the question or move on!
2006-11-28 08:11:36 · update #1
okay im not down for all of that but I do have some advice... You guys should try swinging..Its were the two of you get together with other couples who are interested in the same thing as u, and you switch partners...for example, you with another wife, her with another husband.but u do it the same room around eachother that way u both know what went on and its alot safer then random men... Most of the time swingers will test for aids,stds, and other stuff more frequently then random people will.Its the safest way to have fun with other people without catching something...But for the record...I am not down with that!!!
2006-11-28 09:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...you're cool and she's cool...just make sure the other guys are cool...don't let things get out of hand...she obviously trusts you beyond belief...this is a fantasy that few women will even share...go for it...if it's what you want and it's what she wants then the only people that matter are already consenting...be sure to run any names through any and all local court records...it's amazing what you can find out about people through looking up their pasts; you can also run their name thru your states DOC(dept of corrections); do all the homework you can...she's worth it...and don't be scared to have 911 on speed dial...that could be more helpful than you could ever know...also have a code word that only you and she know, one that will signal when she's in trouble or feels scared...make sure condoms aren't just "available", insist that they be replaced or the fun stops right there...
2006-11-28 08:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your ok with sharing your wife? If so you shouldn't ask friends because it would just mess up friendships maybe try to find groups that do this and get to know them before you actually allow it to happen. If you could make them get tested for diseases first.
2006-11-28 08:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even get married?
2006-11-28 08:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok that made absolutely noooo sense.
2006-11-28 08:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok.....uh huh......sure.................you sound TOTALLY single dude
2006-11-28 08:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋