So I started to see this man. We started as friends.There was me and our mutual friend and him. We all shared the same interests. Well myself and this guy became closer with each other.He told me that he had told our friend that he would leave his wife for her. But that she had said all they could be was friends I excepted this.Well things got heated between us and one thing led to another.We started to see each other on a more intimate way.All in secret.He went away with his wife(yes I know im out of order he is married but I fell deeply in love with him)When he got back he told me that he really missed me.Later on he told me that he didnt miss me as much as he did our friend and in fact she was all he thought about.Ouch that hurt.Still he said she isnt interested in me all she wants is to be friends.I realised that he was stringing me along and I wasnt happy tho I didn't want him to think that I couldnt be friends with him.Ive retaliated to something he said and now he wont talk 2 me
2006-11-28 08:04:37 · 26 answers · asked by tearsandangels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Raven I understand your answer more now but I promise its not me running off with you brother-in-law....
2006-11-28 08:42:24 · update #1
He played you like he played his wife and your friend. Really what did you expect.
Get the doctor Phil book before you get yourself in more mess.
2006-11-28 08:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by P&B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have you done to yourself girl? You really do need to think about this. You were right to breakaway from him. Let's face it. If you are in love with the guy then you are in no position to force yourself to now be a friend to him. You won't be able to be the friend that you want to be for him. You are always going to have in the back of your mind, you two as a couple, which is unrealistic and an unachievable goal.
Don't go back or you will have lost your dignity. Why allow someone to treat you like that? It is going to be hard, but you will be thankful in the long run for being strong.
2006-12-02 06:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you made the wrong choice in seeing a married man. A cheating husband will always be a cheater and a player. If he could do that to his wife, what makes you think he cant do it to you? Next, I don't think he's worth it. Move on and find a man that is NOT married. You need to realise that you cannot ever trust someone who is doing something behind someone Else's back. He also told you that he is thinking about your friend alot. I suggest you forget about that loser, even though you are one yourself for dating him and loving him and try to find a trust worthy man. You too need to start changing.
No offence but this is ridiculous.
2006-11-28 08:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is way complicated !!!!
The main points I think are that stringing along can be bad if you really know you don't want to be with somebody.
If you think you might, then the stringing along is legal I think.
Friendships sometimes shift and change. At least you have some friends.
2006-11-28 08:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really easy to say you're better off out of it but it's really hard for you to accept that i would image.
think the most followable advice i can give you is to give yourself and him some space. sounds like he needs lots of attention from everywhere or he's not happy so when you don't talk to him he'll probably want you more.
hopefully by that point you'll have realised that you're far too good for him and don't want to see him anymore anyway. try & find a distraction that's good for you xxx
2006-11-28 08:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life he is so not worth it.
HELLO! would you want a guy that cheatd on his wife? come on seriously. you'd only end up thinking that he is havin it off with someone else
move on find somebody worthy of you. Though you might want ot go for a guy that is single this time.
Good Luck.
2006-11-28 08:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was only with you because he liked the danger of being caught. a married man will never leave his wife for his mistress. think about it...if she can fool around with a married man whats to stop her from having an affair if they got together...morals have been compromised.
2006-11-28 08:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a scummy situation except for your friend who won't go further than just friends...too bad you're a whore and will.
Too bad so sad you "fell deeply in love" (gagging) with this married man.
2006-11-28 08:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to easily ask her why she's offended, someone might want to have instructed her something about you that isn't any longer genuine :) maximum issues will be solved with a effective communique, you ought to easily capture her in a sturdy mood and in a smooth position for a communique and easily ask her :) sturdy success :)
2016-10-07 22:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts but the only thing you can do is move on and find a more fulfilling relationship. dont you think you deserve more than a guy who isnt really committed to you? he has a wife. i bet he is still with her.
2006-11-28 08:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by yellowhaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋