Only serious answers please!?

Question

My behavior is so stupid,like a horn. I want to change this for ever. What can i do? I really want to change. Please tell me serious answers!

Answer 1

Kinda hard to answer since you didn't mention what kind of behavior you have. Just change. If you say hateful things to people all the time try telling them they look nice today even if they don't. Give hugs and tell them your sorry for how you have been acting. Like I said hard to answer since you didn't mention what you are doing that is so bad.

Answer 2

Behavior cannot be stupid, actions can be stupid. And even then, stupid is a relative term. Stupid things in certain places sometimes arent so stupid in others. If you were to elaborate on your "like a horn" description, most likely you would get answers more specific to your needs. Also more inside information as to why you are stupid and such. Try re-phrasing the question.

Answer 3

First of all, try to think of something that could make you do stupid things. For example when your mom or dad is around do you do stupid things? Or you have different behavior when you are with your friends. Now if you behave properly when your dad or mom is around, then always think of them as if they are around everywhere you go. Or learn from your mistake, don't ever commit the same mistake again. Now the key word in this so called earth is "RESPECT" just respect yourself, your friends, your family or even a complete stranger, then trust me. You wouldn't feel stupid on the way you behave again. HOPE YOU LEARN SOMETHING.

Answer 4

Erm, I dont really know what you mean by "like a horn". However, silly behavior is easily remedied. You just have to think about what you do before you actually do it - the ever cliched "look before you leap". If you think of the possible consequences of your actions, you will not do silly things but clever ones.

Answer 5

Whats a horn? If you try to change you will be unhappy however you can change your environment we learn from others you cannot help but be affected by the people around you try to find new ones

Answer 6

In the past I have yelled at myself for behaviors, reactions, feelings, etc that I have had... please realize there is some internal work for you ahead. Being comfortable, compassionate and understanding of oneself is often more difficult than being so of others.

"We don't realize that we experience our lives the way we do,
not because they actually are that way,
but because that's how we see them."

The above is a quote from a book called "The Key, and the name of the key is willingness" - I suggest finding it or something else along those lines to help you.

Answer 7

Be positive towards yourself. Don't tell yourself you're stupid. Find the things you admire about yourself and build on those characteristics. Read books you wouldn't otherwise read. Discover new things about the world and you will learn new things about yourself.
Hanging out with different people will make the transition easier from the old you, to the new.

Answer 8

I would say you can't change who you are. But, if you really do want to change your unique self, then I would try and catch myself before I did things I didn't like. For instance, say I used the word "girl" a lot when talking to my female friends..(I have a friend who does this and it gets on my nerves). This takes practice, but if I knew I was about to say "girl" when talking to someone, "I love him girl, you just don't understand", then I would try to stop myself, even if I had to stop in the middle of the sentence and change my wording. Like I said, this takes practice. I didn't like the way I wrote cursive, so when I knew I was going to write cursive I would force myself to use the "new" style. Then, if I messed up by starting with the old style, I would start over. Sounds silly, but after a while, your mind and body learn. Good luck. But also, like I said in the beginning, you are unique. If you are wanting to change yourself because people around you don't like the way you are, then you don't need to be associating with them. God Bless!

Answer 9

I'm thinking you might mean like a horn, you blurt things out before thinking them through and they turn out to be stupid....? Every time you're about to say something take a split second to think about it. Just say the words once in your head before saying them outloud. That might help.

Answer 10

I don't know what "like a horn" means, but I would try to get some therapy to help you deal with the reason you are acting this way. It's probably the best way to make long-term changes. Good for you for trying to make your life better.