It has been about 2 weeks now since I broke it off. I just want some feedback from some people because my friends and family have been telling me that its no big deal.
2006-11-28 07:57:19 · 25 answers · asked by Ed A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are probably telling you that because they love you and they can see you are hurting. Hell yeah, you have every right to be angry. Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. It nips at the core of your self esteem, it tells you that you are not good enough. It doesnt matter whether it was a mistake or not because things do happen in the heat of the moment and mistakes still get made, but it doesnt change how the person who is being cheated on feels about themselves. I guess the big question is....do you still love her? That is the hardest part to get over and it is going to take a bit more time than 2 weeks to get her out of your head and your heart. Depending on how much you loved her will determine how long you will grieve for. And you do grieve when you lose someone you love. Just know that not all girls/women are the same...so dont carry her betrayal into another relationship....treat it as brand new....you have to trust because your next girlfriend is not the old girlfriend and you dont want to start any relationship off badly because of the things that happened to you with someone else. Distrust and jealousy is the quickest way to lose someone....so you need to come to terms with what has happened and when you are done grieving, move on and leave what she did where it belongs....in the past.
I hope it wont take you long until you start to trust again. Try to not blame yourself....it was not your fault she cheated...it was just the relationship was not meant to be...she was not the girl for you.
I hope you feel better soon....You wont always feel angry. With time you will just put it down to experience.
2006-11-28 08:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u have the right to b mad b/c she was with u when she cheated and didn't even tell u abut it but u should not let that get in your way of happiness u broke up with her move on and try 2 forget abut the past and just live the present and be happy. good luck.
2006-11-28 08:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have a right to be mad.
But you're not together anymore - be thankful that you aren't, and be prepared to move on.
Use this knowledge as a way to never regret your decision to end it in the future.
If you want to confront, go for it, but keep your cool. Being angry is okay, but being angry AT her won't change a thing.
It's done. Move on, and be glad you're not with a lying cheat.
2006-11-28 08:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by CutiePie1707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've a query for you, Does she have a key to your condo an if she does exchange the locks, rapid. Like they say you never be aware of what you've gotten until you don' t have it anymore. But i am like every body else. Restraining order, name the police, and i do know its your condo and all, however i might take a weekend commute somewhere. But good luck to you, you sound like an awfully fine guy and also you deserve better than this.
2016-08-09 23:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by vanburen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you, Does she have a key on your position an if she does replace the locks, quick. Like they are putting forward you under no circumstances comprehend what you've until eventually you don' t have it anymore. yet i'm like anybody else. Restraining order, call the police, and that i comprehend its your position and all, yet i ought to take a weekend vacation someplace. yet sturdy success to you, you sound like an particularly effective guy and also you deserve extra powerful than this.
2016-11-27 19:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you broke up with her, you already knew that she wasn't the one for you. This just verifies that your feelings about her were right and that you're better off without her. Be proud that you didn't need to know about her cheating ways to figure out that you don't need her in your life. Forget about it.
2006-11-28 07:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you have the right to be mad sweetie! You had a commitment with this girl, and she wasn't faithful to you. She disrespected you by cheating on you.
You have every right to be angry, but let it in, deal with it & let it go - don't let it rule you!
2006-11-28 08:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering that you two arent in a relationship anymore, its better to just leave things the way they are. Besides, getting mad now isnt going to effect anything and these nothing you can do now.
2006-11-28 08:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have the right 2 be a lil mad but move on u two arent together anymore
2006-11-28 07:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by mz.honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a right to be mad but there is nothing you can do at this point, she is your ex, it is over with, don't invest anymore of your time in her.
2006-11-28 08:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋