I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. We are always together and we are head over hills in love. Before she goes home for the Thanksgiving break she tells me that she and a guy have been sexually active when they come home for breaks. She hasn't seen him in a year but they make a pact to only have sex with each other. Now my girlfriend and I have had sex over 100 times and now she tells me this. The guy doesn't want anything to do with her but sex and my girlfriend thinks she is going to cheat on me. She didn't do anything over the Thanksgiving Break but I basically gave her and altermatum for the Christmas break. She first said she doesn't want to hurt me so she said we should break up, then she said that she loves me so much and that she's going to try not to cheat. What should WE do?
2006-11-28 07:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sherry Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
2006-11-28 08:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy if she loves you she would not have the desire to cheat no matter what kind of pact she has with this other guy. You should dump her and find a better girlfriend.
2006-11-28 07:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f she truly has feelings for you she wouldn't of said she would try to not cheat. She would of said nothings going to happen because she loves you and no pact is going to come between the both of you.
2006-11-28 08:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. Did she cut off your balls too? She doesn't love you enough pal. Either leave her or accept the way she is and go make some "pacts" of your own.
2006-11-28 08:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she would cheat on you then shes a slut.....I think u should find a g/f that wouldnt do something like that. If she cares about you at all she wouldnt even think about doing something like that!!! You can do so much better....what if she would come back and give you a disease.......4 real!!!
2006-11-28 08:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by pregnant with # 2 :-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new gf my friend....you obviously mean less to her than she to you....Jeez. BTW how are you going to know if she does cheat? Will she tell you? Then what? She will "try" not to cheat...? You don't want this head case....say goodbye now for your own sanity...
2006-11-28 08:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Is she serious. If she is so in love with you then this guy shouldn't be a problem for her to ward off.
2006-11-28 07:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by SARAH B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knows she is going to cheat then she isn't worth your time anyway. is she loves you she wouldn't even be thinking about it and furthermore she wouldn't do it. tell her to grow and up and get some self control and learn to say no. she makes herself sound like a slut.
2006-11-28 07:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going to cheat, let her go home and let her cheat..
2006-11-28 07:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Thobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find a new girlfriend dude.
2006-11-28 07:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋