I guess I'm writing because the pain is so bad and I wondered what other people in a similar position might feel or suggest?
2006-11-28 07:47:18 · 13 answers · asked by sweetbonanzajellybean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are support groups that you can find solace with. As a mother of a child through adoption, I can only tell you that I could not love that child more if I had given birth to her.
Your gift was the greatest that anyone could offer another person. Your pain is real. Did you see the View today - all about families built through adoption and foster care.
You can register on a birth parent registry and when your son is ready to find you he can.
You are in my heart.
2006-11-28 07:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you put him up for adoption, or did you adopt him??
I was adopted at birth, and at 18 my brothers called me at boarding school... that was 3 years ago, and now i know my birthmom, birthdad, have 4 brothers, and tons of new faces, though we all look alike, and I love them all.. It's been fun, having 2 full families, at first completely awkward at first, but its easier later.. If you have and other sons or daughters, i'd suggest having them talk to him first.. email if you want to talk about it though, since i've just gone through this not too long ago.. cheers!
2006-11-28 07:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you might have given him up for adoption. If so, the are some choices in life which carry consequences, and I.m afraid that this is one of them.You love him; do not think of screwing with his head at this adolescent, volatile age.
Try starting with therapy for yourself.
2006-11-28 07:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 11:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what u r really asking specifically. Do u want to see him? Ask the courts or your adoption agency that u used. Know where he is? Ask the parents 1st if u could.
2006-11-28 07:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that you gave him the best gift a loving mother can give if she is unable to care for her child herself. God Bless
2006-11-28 07:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing the situation is u gave him up for adoption, right? well i dont think u shud break up his family or nething....maybe u cud just try to visit him often
2006-11-28 07:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you adopt him or did he get adopted him away from you b/c i was adopted and i love my parents that adopted me my real parents dont want nething to do with me
2006-11-28 07:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making some sence before u ramble on
2006-11-28 07:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you spent eighteen years with him and that is the same time other parents have too.
2006-11-28 07:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋