im 27 and my wife 22, we have been together for about 5 years, is it a bad idea for her to go out with me to a strip club?????????
2006-11-28 07:46:29 · 15 answers · asked by caragon27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you both are secure with the relationship, you both are honest about what will or will not happen at the club, and this is just a testing the waters kinda thing, then what the heck, go for it. However, if she is gonna get jealous if you tip a girl, or she is gonna give attitude to the dancers like they are beneath her, or she is going to be a stick in the mud, then it is a BAD idea. Communicate first and you'll have a great time.
Some tips for couples going to a strip club. DO NOT give attitude to the girls working. It is there place of work and they don't needed other women coming in and judging them. DO tip the girls, they work for tips. DO NOT pretend you are a stripper and get on stage, they hate that, unless you make friends and are invited on stage. DO get a lap dance, but DON'T assume women are allowed to touch more than a man would. DO go to have fun. DO NOT go to monitor your husband.
2006-11-28 08:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine and I took our husbands to a strip club for their birthday a few years ago. I was very nervous because I had never been. Let me tell you...WE HAD A BLAST!!!!! The people at the club were so nice and it was such a turn on for our husbands to see the girls dancing for us! It was fun fro me to stand at the stage and let the girls dance for me knowing my husband was watching and gettig to fantasize but not really get involved with anyone else. We started going at least two or three times a month because we had so much fun. The girls even got to where they would come sit with us at our table between dances and visit. I see NOTHING wrong with it as long as you are both willing and are both secure in your marriage. if either one of you are the jealous type or are insecure about where you stand I would say no. Otherwise, have a ball!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-28 07:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by deidra3970 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it is her idea, probably ok. Is she insecure about looks/sexuality, probably a bad idea even if she says ok. Doe's she let you go already? She might be a little curious as to what she's missing out on or what you would do without her there. If this is a completely new thing, you may want to get a third party to suggest it. That way she wouldn't think you're a heel for suggesting it if she is mortified by the idea.
2006-11-28 07:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by MWC Carver Williams '68 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife TOOK me to a strip club for my first time there. She has more fun than I do. If your wife is open to the idea - GO FOR IT!!
It actually boosts my wife's self esteem. I love what I get when I get home - it's great!
2006-11-28 12:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dadofthree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a bad idea if the feeling is mutual. However, if you want her to go and she doesn't but she goes anyway... you may be setting yourself up for the cold shoulder later on. In some way shape or form it will come back to haunt you unless your wife is totally open to you going to see other naked ladies. But I would ask myself Why do I need to go see other ladies when my love is right here? Unless your wife does not turn you on anymore and you need others to stimulate you into having sex with your wife? If you need extra stimulation ask your wife to roll play for you that she is a stripper. Always fun to play with sex as long as both of you are willing.
2006-11-28 07:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Karen A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're a similar element Darling. ideally you ought to no longer artwork at both one. humorous you take advantage of the time period exortic truly of unique, as i don't think of there is something unique about strip club dancing,yet various of erotic truly (no longer that it really is a foul element in any respect). From having had countless acquaintances and workers who worked as "unique Dancers (stippers)" i do no longer wish that life on each person inspite of the actuality that if the money is large.
2016-11-29 21:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by hertling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you both want then go for it. On the other hand why dont you stay at home and have her strip for you. I agree with the people that say it will save you money. I would rather strip for my husband than have someone else do it and he pays them. Bring the money to me and ill do it for him.
2006-11-28 07:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I woulnd't bring her to a strip club... and I would't go by myself or with anybody anyway...
2006-11-28 07:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by jaarceg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just don't ignore her the whole night. That'd be a HUUUUGE error...
2006-11-28 07:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls will probably like her more than you since most of them are Lesbians.
2006-11-28 07:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋