From the moment he found out I was pregnant my boyfriend of 4 years won't have sex with me. He won't tell me why, he just says he doesn't know. We have always been very passionate with each other, he's still very affectionate, hugs, kisses, a lot of skin contact but no sex. What could be his problem?
2006-11-28 07:28:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lpree78 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Maybe he is afraid of hurting the baby? Have him go to your next doctor's appointment with you and discuss his fears/concerns.
2006-11-28 07:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by wyllow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of Men are Like That They have a fear of Hurting the Baby during sex..Also Some men find it weird to have sex With A women if she is pregnant Even with there child..I would try to Talk to him about it and reassure him he wont hurt the baby and that sex is ok to have if the doctor Okays It..
2006-11-28 08:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by MommyOf3Buttercups 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys are afraid of hurting the baby if they have intimate contact with their wife/girlfriend but don't want to admit it. And sometimes they are scared of hurting you! Maybe you should just sit down with him and tell him how you feel and tell him to give you an honest answer and when he does, you will respect it, but still wish to continue being intimate.
2006-11-28 07:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Teej 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks he can hurt the baby or just feels different because he knows he has a child on the way and it's sinking in. Give him some time.
2006-11-28 07:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Izzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Lily. some men are considerate enough not to do anything that'll risk hurting the baby.
2006-11-28 07:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could possibly scared that he is going to hurt u or the baby. not really sure on this one, but he knows y he's just needs to be honest with u
2006-11-28 07:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Holly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he doesn't want to injure the baby,or get you pregnate again. Good Luck-
2006-11-28 07:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is concerned and thoughtful. He needs your OB GYN to tell him that its OK!
2006-11-28 07:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's because his little sex-kitten is now a mommy figure and some guys just find that to be un-sexy or somehow out-of-bounds
to those who say it's because he doesn't want to hurt the baby - they just say that as an excuse to cover their real feelings.
2006-11-28 07:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
maybe he doesn't want to hurt the baby?!
2006-11-28 07:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋