my bff is alyse.. and the s.s. (skool slut) is sami... there weraing the same stuff.. hanging out.. and there putting messages on the cafeteria message like ALYSE+SAMI=BFFZ!! and i confronted alyse but she is denying it.. im afraid sami might change my frind ive had since 3.. i need advice... please?? we both agreed that we hated sami.. but alyse is liing... im soo mad.. my better friends and i are all worried.. HELP!!
2006-11-28 07:22:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi...
Sounds like a bit of drama. So obviously your friend needs to quit hanging out with the skank. You have a couple options. Tell Alyse that she shouldn't hang out with the SS anymore or your friendship will be in question. So thats threatening. If that doesn't work, cajole. Aka ask her nicely, have a girl talk, get her to see things your way. Oh, and the clincher. You sound like your decently popular. Use that to your advantage. Fine a way to make Sami miserable, without having it put on you. Start a rumor, webcam her doing something ridiculous, get creative, you obviously know what she's like and who she hangs with. Make her very sorry for causing you any greif. Also, if you were doing fun things before, do even more stuff, have parties, whatever to get your BFF thinking about how awesome you are, even though she already knows it. Remind her. Try any of the above. And, if she is really your friend, she'll still be even if she has no taste in picking her "new" friends.
2006-11-28 07:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confrontation is always the best when there's alot of BS drama going on. Confront your friend... and if she decides she wants to be friends with this sami chick...then so be it. That's her decision.
Side note: It's always better to use proper grammer, and english when addressing the public. Maybe I'm just getting old, but I had to read your question 6 times just to figure out what you were trying to ask.
Side note #2. When it comes to school drama, you're better off steering clear, and worrying about you, and no one else. Everyone has to learn for themselves, and make decisions for themselves. Drama IS BAD!!!!!!
2006-11-28 07:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her problem if she changes for the better or for the worse. You won't be able to stop her from lying and being friends with Sami.
2006-11-28 07:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as people grow, people changes. You cant change a person, only the person can. All you can do is be her friend, and maybe try to understand her and sami. That's if your willing to try. If not, i guess there's always other people to make friends with. Its going to be hard to reconnect with people you tend to grow apart with.
2006-11-28 07:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had the same prob what i did was talk 2 my friend when it didnt work i left her eventually she came around and wanted 2 b my friend i told her that she made her choice and she has to live with it so we arent friends any more but i learend that she wasnt a really good friend because she left me 4 some one what wasnt even a good friend 2 begin with ok? hope ur sitiation turns out better than mine but talk 2 her if u catch her doing it again its time 2 find better friends that arent backstabbers
2006-11-28 07:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has gotten to know sami a little better and maybe sami isn't as bad as they seem. or you know they do say keep your friends close but your enemies even closer!
2006-11-28 07:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by GIO847 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Friends tell the truth,no lies,no regrets.
2006-11-28 07:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go...
its heard enough that she is doing this to you....
you need to under stand that if she was your "bff"
she wouldn't be acting like that
2006-11-28 07:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a good longgggg talk with her. Good luck!!!!!
2006-11-28 07:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋