if so, can you ever forget it? or is it always a part of you?
2006-11-28 07:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by :D 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Losing a friend is very hard. I recently lost a friend. She didn't die or anything we're just not friends anymore. Remember that sometimes people come into your life for seasons and just like the seasons change so do the people in your life. As long as you learned and grew from the situation everything will be fine.
2006-11-28 07:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my so called best friend turned against me when I was ten years old, and then when I was in college I had another really close friend who I guess you could say changed in the opposite way when I was starting to grow up a bit, and we had a terrible fight and never spoke again. There are others as well who kind of fell by the wayside, but those two bother me most. Now I'm 37 and it still bothers me a little bit- but not that much. I have friends I really deeply care about who will probably be friends for my whole life, so I'm just grateful that I learned how to tell the difference between the long term keepers, and the ones who came into my life in an intense kind of way then burned themselves out. One of the things I noticed is that true friends often take longer to get to know, so don't give up on those shy people.
2006-11-28 15:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some friends who I used to be very close with but we eventually just drifted apart. There are other friends I was close with but I decided to leave them after finding out they talked behind my back and made fun of me. It was a very tough and painful decision to make, but it was the best one to make. If your someone's real friend, theres never an excuse to backstab them. I will never forget them. They were a part of my life and they will always be a part of my memories because they hurt me a lot. Once someone hurts me, I may eventually forgive, but I NEVER forget.
2006-11-28 15:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most of the friends that i make maybe a few months later we end up having a fight so i have to forget about them. i'm not good with keeping friends
2006-11-28 15:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure if i lost my friend today.
I hope I didnt, I havent heard from him yet.
No matter what happens he will always have a special place in my heart,
Gosh! Its really going to be sad day if I did
2006-11-28 15:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have never lose a friend
but if i will i thing i will be very bad bc it will by hard for me to forget him or her of course if this friend would be my best friend but by the pas i will gett beter my self
2006-11-28 15:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time makes it easier...but you always remember. I would pity the person who was so cold that they could forget.
2006-11-28 15:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! I have lost 3 of my best friends and one after 8yrs and I will never forgive myself because every day at school I see her with her friends and I'm with mine!!! This hurts me so deeply!!! She hates me now because of one dumb fight!!!! I really miss her but hey you can't get everything we want!!!
2006-11-28 15:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Milz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can forget it by the time but it is really hard and very ruff.
2006-11-28 15:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dint loose them they lost me
2006-11-28 15:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋