Me and my wife argue all the time. My 7 year daughter wont care she doesnt even want to make a list or see him. And my son is about to b 1.
2006-11-28 07:01:42 · 19 answers · asked by wombizzle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most of everyone is being helpful, but my me and my daughter are already both dreamers. We live in the clouds. She is my bst friend and i hate lying too her about everything
2006-11-28 07:20:08 · update #1
Most of everyone is being helpful, but my me and my daughter are already both dreamers. We live in the clouds. She is my bst friend and i hate lying too her about anything
2006-11-28 07:20:30 · update #2
And christmas is about the birth of christ and shoul be about family not about gifts.On birthdays is it any les special when u give presents to your kids then some fat old guy who has flying deer. And what about when last year when she did make a list all she put on the list was a real 4-wheeler, i had to spend like 950 dollars on one gift that she is ready for(After many wreck and breakdowns she is a pro)
2006-11-28 07:26:03 · update #3
whenever they can understand what you're telling them.The baby's fine now,but the 7yr.old should be told.My kids knew as soon as possible because I always believed in reality .while they were babies it was fine,but in the real world,mommy and daddy had to work our butts off the provide all the holidays of fun so,give it to them straight.
2006-11-28 07:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never lied to my kids about Santa Clause. I didn't have to. When my kids finally asked me for the truth I told them that everyone who gives at Christmas time is Santa. Santa Clause is in the heart of everyone. He may not be a big fat jolly man in a red suit but he exists none the less. Don't refute Santa to your children as you will only make them grow up too soon. Children need to be children for as long as possible because they will too soon be subjected to the harsh reality of the "real" world. Let their imaginations grow and never hold them back.
2006-11-28 07:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by triplete1958 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 07:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of feel sorry for anyone who doesn't believe in Santa Claus.
Look, while it is true that there is no chubby guy with a white beard that goes around handing out toys to all of the good girls and boys on Christmas eve, the embodiment of the spirit of Christmas that St. Nicholas represents is alive and well, very real, and definitely worth believing in.
2006-11-28 07:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Our society is full of BS! Don't perpetuate myths like this and myriad others just because society dictates the norm for lying!
Break the mold through reasoning and common sense and don't be a liar to you kids. As inoffensive as these little lies can be seem, believe me, they cause irreparable damage in your children's lives. Don't get them started on the liars roller coaster that is this dog eat dog world. Let them learn about lying from others' examples, not yours.
More power to you!!!
2006-11-28 07:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids grow up too fast and living in the clouds isn't so bad, really!
If she does believe in Santa, let her until she's old enough to realize he doesn't exist! A little holiday MAGIC never hurts!
I'm jewish and we don't have a Santa but when my kids were growing up, I invented the Hannukah Fairy so they could have some fantasy too. My 18 year old still says, " I hope the Hannukah Fairy (wink) will make it to the house this year!"
2006-11-28 07:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by preciouspinkla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them be. I always try to change the subject when asked about Santa. They will hear about it all from their friends , make their own ideas etc. If you girl tells the son when he gets older, tell him that he can believe in whoever he wants to. Kids NEED to believe and dream in something.
2006-11-28 07:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you never believed in Santa doesn't mean you should ruin it for your kids. They should believe in Santa until they figure it out. There is no reason whatsoever that an adult needs to tell a child there is no Santa. They will figure it out at the appropriate age.
2006-11-28 07:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you tell your 7 year old, you have to make her pretend about santa so your son will still have the joy of Christmas too!
2006-11-28 07:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't mess that up who cares if they believe for a little while that's part of being a kid they will find out on there own that he is not real and if it makes you feel better the girl will find out first and probably tell her little brother so don't worry about it just let them be kids
2006-11-28 07:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋