My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We recently seperated for 6 months and just recently reconciled. He and I have always had a hearty "kinky" sex life. Up to about a week ago we were having sex almost every day (I am trying to make up for lost time). Suddenly the last 3 times, he is not able to ejaculate and or loses his erection half way through. I've asked him if maybe I'm just not pleasuring him and feel embarassed. He tells me not to be too concerned that he has had a lot on his mind. Also I should add that he is on a detox drug called suboxone and just started taking a sleeping medication called toradine (or somthing like that). What should I do??
I've answered enough questions about this stuff...but I just can't do it when it comes to me personally. Please??? Thanks!
2006-11-28 06:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by Brokenconfused 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Could be stress, and he did say he has a lot on his mind. that could be overpowering him to ejaculate. And taking meds can reduce sexual things too. Look into the side effects on his meds. And try not having sex for a day or two, seems like you both need a rest and maybe his member just needs a rest. he's not as young as he used to be.
2006-11-28 06:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sleeping med is likely to be having an effect
he may also be experiencing some anxiety given you ahve reconciled about pleasing you
take your time be gentle and encouraging but not pushy
stimulate him more and do it slowly - take the emphasis off intercourse and onto more oral etc for awhile
if there is still a problem he needs to see a doctor get checked out maybe change meds maybe get some ED help for a while
2006-11-28 07:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably The Med's Having Side effects or from stress.
2006-11-28 07:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The meds probably are affecting his erection and ejaculation.
Try masturbating to pleasure yourself. Do it in front of him. If he can't get a woodie out of that, nothing will help.
2006-11-28 06:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be the medications or it could be that he's wondering what you might've been up to during those six months of seperation. Just from the name you use ( Promiscuous Girl ), I'd be wonderin' too.
2006-11-28 06:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAD A NORMAL SEX LIFE BEFORE THAN IT IS MORE THEN LIKELY THE MEDS HE IS ON. HE SHOULD GO AND TALK TO HIS DOCTOR ABOUT IT TO SEE IF THERE IS SOMETHING THEY CAN RECOMMEND.
2006-11-28 07:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by LOVE MY LIFE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your doctor. I suspect the one you're taking is not working.
2016-03-28 22:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋