If you found out your b\f \ husband was a transvestite what would you do?
2006-11-28 05:52:40 · 27 answers · asked by Jemma D .tv 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if it was not in your year, nothing should be done
:> peace
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2006-12-01 11:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
A Lovely World, Just Don't Keep It A Secret Or You will Hurt Peoples Feeling. It's Harmless, Unless It Is Private
2006-12-02 04:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out that someone I knew was a transvestite I'd help him along the way...be kind and understanding with him and help him to realise his dreams....and of course I'd adore him :)
2006-11-28 18:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by PCee 49 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask lots of questions. Be careful and go slow he might be very nervous about you having found out. If you can be understanding that would be great. If you can't then the best thing might be to leave. You will not change him. I am a crossdresser myself. I am not gay or bi or anything I just like women a bit too much.
2006-11-28 12:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what he wears does not change who he is i am a cd my self and when my gf found out she was understandably upset more because i lied to her than anything. she took some time to accept it but decided it did not change who i was in any way i was/am still the same person she fell in love with, sometimes i just like to borrow and outfit or two
2006-11-29 03:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Jemma ,
If your g/f loves you she will accept your female side, its surprising how many ladies do accept their mens feminine side. If ya wanna e-mail me you can, and I will see if if i can connect you with people like yourself, for support and friendship.
Just be truthful to yuorself, that's all you can do.
all the best xx Stephanie
2006-11-29 11:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie_Tgirl 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Id say ya couldve waxed yer legs ya lazy bastard. But alas im not a woman... Or even a man who dresses like one...
2006-11-28 05:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends. If he wanted to keep it a very private, separate thing from our relationship, I'd tell him he has my support and understanding, and let him do his thing. If he told me about it and seemed enthusiastic, I'd be all over that, because I love men in drag. I'd dress him up in lingerie as a turn-on for both of us in the bedroom, and gussy him up and go out to lesbian clubs! Just have a lot of fun with it.
2006-11-28 06:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I would be intrigued, but probably turned off by it too. I would certainly be dismayed that he didn't open up about this to me sooner. I don't think I would mind too much, as long as he didn't try to make it part of our sexual life. (What can I say? If I wanted to have sex with someone who looked like a woman, I'd be straight!)
2006-11-28 06:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'd tell him not to be ashamed of it, and remind him he can tell me anything. Then I'd take him shopping for his own stuff if he's been borrowing mine (tho if he's still nervous about it I'd let him pretend it's for me.)
2006-11-28 10:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
yo! Buy him sexy ladies undies and suck his co ck while he's wearing them and then get the burly next door neighbour in to fuc k his hole while you take pics and tell Mr. Neighbour he's your fuc king sister!!
2006-11-29 06:29:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋