she's 23, living with her parents, and is 7 months pregnant...she doesn't want to get married....how should she break the news...
2006-11-28 05:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by budgie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She needs to sit everyone down and have a talk with them... her parents may be shocked (if they haven't already been suspecting it, that is...) but hopefully they will come around and try to be supportive. It's good she doesn't feel like she needs to be married, that is her decision and she needs to let them know that... but also understand it will be much more difficult being a single mother.
2006-11-28 05:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by redrancherogirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By her 7 month her parents have already figured it
out and they are waiting for any information she
wants to give them. I would start a conversation with, " I'm sure by now you have noticed that I
am going to have a baby...." Since she is 23 she will have to grow up fast, find a place to live and
hopefully the father will be providing finnacial
support. If not, she needs to see a lawyer.
2006-11-28 05:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest is the best policy. They may be angry, disappointed and even sad. But, she is their daughter and they will love her anyway. I had my son when I was 17, I didn't get married and my mom & dad HATED my boyfriend! Talk about unhappy parents!!! But, they loved me a supported me (with a little tough love) and they are now so close to my son and I that I can't imagine not involving them in our lives or sharing my son with them!
She better tell them soon or nature will do the talking for her!
2006-11-28 05:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by janine_says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully explain to her parents how she is planning to take all responsiblity for the child. how she will support it, pay for day care, buy everything it needs and keep its crying from waking them up at night. hopefully she can move out. consider the impact on the parents. take full responsibility and make sure that there will be no impact on them (ie babysitting or things like that)
2006-11-28 05:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to get a toy of yours from once you've been a infant in case you'll discover one and wrap it up. supply it to them with a card that is truly sappy putting forward how invaluable this present out of your mom and father change into to you and now you want them to bypass this particular present onto your new infant in the month it will be born. in case you melt them up first through telling them they advise plenty to you and how they made you experience particular etc...etc... then the information isn't so puzzling to absorb case you're nerve-racking they don't seem going to approve. sturdy success and enable us recognize the way it seems.
2016-10-07 22:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months pregnant and her parents cant tell shes pregnant...something wrong then
2006-11-28 05:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think that she should just be honest.
2006-11-28 05:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by john doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she could just tell them!
2006-11-28 05:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HER BELLY AT THIS POINT SHOULD SAY IT ALL!!
2006-11-28 05:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by LOVE MY LIFE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TURN OFF YOUR CAPSLOCK
2006-11-28 05:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋