We have sex and he can maintain erection for whole diration of sexual activity but some times he ejaculates before I have been satisfied. His erection has lost its ridgitity even when he is fully arroused I can bend his penis over and not cause any pain for him. He has had a history of drug and alcohol use and is in his fourties and there is also a history of cancer in his family. The problem is I can't get him to go to the doctor to get it checked out are there any other options that I have without involving medical doctors?
2006-11-28 04:17:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2006-11-28 04:20:12 · update #1
not maintaining a erection for a mid 40 year old is normal
fast ejaculation is not.. he should have learned to control this a long time ago
why do you think Viagra was invented?
Dating a guy in early 50's- things are A OK
2006-11-28 04:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have been unlucky because sex is an important side of the life and he won't be able to satisfy you while is condition even will get worse in the time.
In fact premature ejaculation and erectile problem (or loss of lust) are two grave problems with no definitive solution. The problem just is the contrary here, and he should drive your lust trying to prolong the act thro foreplay. However anything will be a simple palliative treatment with no significant result.
Generally women need more time for orgasm than men while sex should be an Art, but today men look like rabbits with a lot of ignorance around.
The most part of the marriage break for money and for sex. Now it depends from your mind and demands. If for you the sex (and your sexual life) is important and deserve care you need a man able to satisfy your lust fully. Otherwise be satisfied thro what you're getting now being near the man you're loving (if you love him).
2006-11-28 04:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be many causes for soft or weak erections, or problems maintaining an erection. These causes include age (usually after 30), vascular problems, penis injury, such as damage to veins and arteries inside the penis, a hormonal imbalance, excessive stress and anxiety, diabetes, chronic smoking/drinking, drugs, over-masturbation and sexual exhaustion, or surgery. If left untreated, weak erections can lead to permanent sexual dysfunction!
2006-11-28 08:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in his 40's, that's the problem...Unfortunately, a man's ability to have a solid erection decreases with age. Try Viagra or Cialis, lol
2006-11-28 05:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've not had sex with other girls then my wife too... so you make me think about some issues I might have, without even knowing about it. Anyway... I don't like having sex with my wife anymore(we only have 6 years together) so I have two choices: don't have sexual intercourse the rest of my life, or to try sleeping with other girls... I'll let you know if I will have the same problem as your friend... Maybe he forgot how it is to have real quality sex... I surely did... :(
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2016-05-15 23:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET LEVITRA. But in order 2 do that, he'll need to cut the smokin and drinking some, so he wont be @ risk 4 a heart attack
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2016-06-25 19:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon since he's in his 40's. Probably wasn't like that in his 20's though. If he smokes that's usually the biggest factor.
2006-11-28 04:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you switch it up, when begining love making ask him to "eat" you out first then go to more four play this will give you more time to get warmed up before the intercourse start
2006-11-28 04:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by sevenandahalf7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋