She starts major drama with absolutley EVERYONE!! All my other friends hate her. I didn't hate her at first b/c it wasn't any of my business. Then I saw the gut I liked hanging all over her and She KNOWS I like him. today I found out she has a boyfriend of 2 weeks and "doesn't like him (the guy I like) like that". Should I believe her and try to make him like me? Should I drop everything and hate her for all the reasons my friends do?
2006-11-28 04:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by goddess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw... I saw the GUY I liked hanging all over her, not the gut
2006-11-28 04:16:32 · update #1
First, ask yourself "Is this really worth my time and energy?" Spend at least a day sincerely considering that, and I'm fairly certain you'll answer your own question. "Hate" is a very strong word, and I hope you're just using it as a figure of speech. Nobody should every dislike another person simply because their friends do. Make your own decisions and do what YOU want. I assume you want to be an individual, right? Be that individual. Don't be an extension of someone else.
2006-11-28 04:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust her or not? That's the question. Try not to let your other friends influence you. If you like the guy, you should go for it, but still keep an eye on your friend in case there's a real reason behind all this hate your friends have for her. Give her a fair shake though. From your story, it sounds innocent enough. She wasn't hanging on the guy, he was hanging on her. I'm wondering whether she is very attractive and the others are just jealous. Remember, pretty people need friends too.
2006-11-28 12:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tara P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hate her for your own reasons-which is that she's hanging out of the guy YOU like when she has a boyfriend!! She doesn't sound like she's much of a friend if she does that, so I'd watch out for her-but don't do anything you'll regret!! Don't believe what she says until you can really trust her!! Hope that helps =)
2006-11-28 12:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by massiveshopaholic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may do what she does for attention. I think you should talk to her and try to find out why she was with the guy you like. You should try to be her friend, but if that doesn't work then how you feel about her should be your choice and not because of how your friends feel.
2006-11-28 12:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by ciza29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word...you certainly don't have to associate with anyone you don't want to. With that said, it gives you no license to bash her behind her back either.
It does sound like a lot of drama...but you sound young--enjoy it while it is still nothing major :)
2006-11-28 12:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! you have to be your own person if you don't hate her than thats the way you should feel. You can't force yourself to hate someone cause no matter what you say you will always know that you don't hate her. Don't fall into peer pressure be your own you
2006-11-28 12:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by rstahelski 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Much better question using "gut".
2006-11-28 12:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't hang onto that, but if she starts it again beat the C*** out of her!
2006-11-28 12:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by #35|how misery loves me| 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T MAKE A PERSON LIKE YOU
2006-11-28 12:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by pam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋