im too quiet i can never think what to talk about so people think of me as a little lost sheep. i cant talk bout anythin coz nothin happens. how do i become an extrovert
2006-11-28 04:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by f_eljarad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't be shy or be afraid of what people think. Just say what's on your mind. Try an dbe more involved with what's going on around you.
2006-11-28 04:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have nothing to say then it's better to keep quiet. when people ask u why u r so quiet just tell them that you don't have anything interesting to say. it's better to remain quiet when you have nothing to say than to talk rubbish just for the sake of talking. remaining quiet doesn't mean you are introvert. we live in a noisy world u know and a little silence will be most welcomed! no i'm joking. seriously if you are introvert then try to socialise by subscribing to a club for example. being able to express one's opinion and views is just a question of practice. if you socialise with time u'll see that you will be at ease when you talk with people even strangers.. chatting on the net could be a start but it's better if you have human contact so that you can express yourself verbally..but remember having nothing to say doesn't mean that you are introvert!
2006-11-28 04:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just really listen when people talk. Sometimes, they'll say something that you can ask questions about, like "I would've seen that movie, except I just got back from the airport.". Then you can ask about where they went, do they travel often, why did they go? Once you start asking questions about themselves, if they're polite, they'll start to ask you questions, and then you can talk. If they're not polite and don't ask questions, say something like, "Wow, you've been to a lot of places! I once went to the Grand Canyon. Blah blah blah..."
Also, you can watch some extroverts and see how they do it, and just mimic them.
It's just a skill, and it's easy to learn.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 04:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For starters, you ask good questions.
Just be your self. Become informed...Dance...sing.....do one sport.
Ask more questions and give more answers:) Life is very short...live life to its fullest
2006-11-28 04:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to drink have a few straight shots of Tequila that will extrovert you right up.............
2006-11-28 04:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
stop being scared to talk...and just add what you think to the conversation...regardless if you think it's pointless...
Start a small talk with strangers...
Smile/say hi to strangers walking down the street....
2006-11-28 04:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm the same way tell what works for you if you dont mind
2006-11-28 04:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just find a guy that is really load and he will make you come out believe me im with one now
2006-11-28 04:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by valreemariecreed 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get drunk
2006-11-28 04:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋