He still loves me but is with someone else now but I wanna show him waht he is missing out on, I know he would be jealous as hell to see me with someone else coz I think he does still love me, we ended on bad terms and he has been a PIG since but ive been told he still loves me... its a dignity thing, i wanna show him what a mistake he has made!!! Its taken a while but im feeling confident and out there again, im 23 and nt beening big headed but I do have a tendancy to get men at there feet. Im friendly with his friends and wanna hurt him and get him back.
I know alot of u will say move on.. bla bla bla.. but i honestly have its a dignity thing, he screwed me over and hurt me so i plan on doing the same... what goes around comes around, wanna get him where it hurts!!!!!!
2006-11-28 03:58:13 · 28 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I finshed with him as he is a two timing rat... stypidly enough i wnated him bk at one point, y? God only knows... but as childish and pathetic as it is... revenge is sweet when it comes to scum like him!!!!
2006-11-28 04:07:11 · update #1
The Best Revenge is Living Well. In your case, do just that. Find someone who is stable, honest, loyal and will make him jealous. That's the secret to living well.
2006-11-28 04:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
be real he probably doesn't love you he just want you hanging on like a yo yo.And the best way to do this is by pretending he still loves you.Hes with someone else and why hurt her has she done anything wrong? if you want to get back at him show him by having fun there's nothing more upsetting than seeing an ex that looks like she doesn't give a s**t.Why give him a reason to call you to everyone cause you've done wrong too hold your head up high and feel good about yourself cause your a decent person. I tried sleeping with my exs m8 and i ended up feeling like a right slapper and it didn't work anyway.hope ya see sense most of all have fun being single X he will realise wat an ar8e hes been when he sees you having fun.
2006-11-28 12:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by jamie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not nice, do you not realise that being nasty like that says more about you than it does about your ex. Why do you want to hurt him? It will serve no purpose other than to further give women in general a bad name for being the scheming, plotting, manipulating bitches that many of them are.
I was hurt by my ex in ways you can not begin to imagine and what has been done to you by your ex is nothing in comparison and yet I still maintain my dignity free from nasty and pointless hatred.
Why not get yourself some dignity instead of acting like a spoilt foutreen year old? I'm fifty three and I wouldn't want you.
2006-11-28 16:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you one thing, going out for revenge can backfire so be careful. The right time will always come up.
My ex became really jealous and tried everything to get back in my life after he saw me with my new baby on telly years ago. I never gave him the the opportunity to be in my life and that was the best revenge of all because he always thought I was cheating on him and I never did so he lost out. I now have my wonderful delicious boyfriend and a georgous son which I will not trade in for anything.
sometimes doing nothing is revenge then they do realise what they are missing.
2006-11-28 12:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by honeb1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would turn the other cheek--I have been through the same thing and it will backfire on you if you try to hurt him back--think of it if you show that you are angry or hurt then he knows you still care and you wont accomplish anything-instead go find a new guy or even just quit hanging out w/ the same crowd and he will come looking for you then you can reject him and turn the tables.It is really just about being rejected
2006-11-28 12:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does'nt matter if you move on or not, but the fact is, revenge is a childish waste of time. It never hurts the intended target as much as it does the person trying to get revenge. Knock yourself out, just don't expect any major satisfaction from this.
2006-11-28 12:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my boyfriend cheated on me he kissed some stupid girl in my college who looks like a man y he did this i dunno?it still gets 2 me ahhh!! so i no how you feel i got him back by completely cutting off any contact with him and ignoring him then i went out with my friends clubbing had a boss night and kissed some lad after this he was on my door step in tears begging my dad to let him talk 2 me had flowers and everything he hasn't done it since but then again lads or all different he might never know when to stop just think is he really worth it? be strong xx
2006-11-28 13:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is get on with your life.
Revenge, no matter how satisfying, is immature.
Keep your dignity and just ignore him and all his mates and show him your a strong women that can move on and not a bitter revengeful slag (not saying you are but thats what you'll be labelled) who sleeps around with his mates.
Head high and concetnrate on yourself.
2006-11-28 12:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok firstly at the age of 23 i thought you would be a bit more grown up about this... for gods sake what goes around comes around girly... if ya really want to take revenge do summit to pee him off but for gods sake messing around like what you have planned is just simply childish and immature...
2006-11-28 12:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I heard once that the best revenge is to do well so don't waste your time plotting revenge just become successfull in everything you do and look to a richer, brighter future
2006-11-28 16:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋