my husband and i have been married for almost 2 years and a few months ago i found out he was having an affair, we talked and decided we wanted to try to wrk things our for there is a lil girl involved adn a baby on the way. well it seems like our relationship just isnt doin well and i want to moveout but im scared, cause i do lov ehim and i dont want things to get worse im hoping if we take time apart it will only help. any advice?
2006-11-28 03:56:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you tried either a relationship counselor or sex therapist. The first two years are the toughest on any marriage and if you are both willing to try and improve things then you will probably need some help. If you do decide to move out you have to realize that you are not the first nor will you be the last to have chosen this route (although you may feel that way at first) and that things in your life will get better. If it helps out your relationship then it is a bonus. If you decide to continue to try and work on your relationship while separated then I wish you good luck. There are many resources available for women in your situation and you should investigate these and try and help yourself feel better. Good luck to you and I wish you a healthy birth of your new child.
2006-11-28 04:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very hard choice to make you said you love him.but sound like he doesn't love you or care because if he did he wouldn't of cheated on you it take 2 to tangle and he decide to tangle with a other women.and if you move out he going back to this lady and may be start a relationship with her if he hasn't all ready? so it a catch 21 if you leave dont come back to him and if you stay he probley going to cheat on you again.its a very hard choice to make.talk it over with one of your close friend and see what they tell you.my x- wife cheated on me 4 years ago and walk out on me and my 2 little girls i know the hurt you are going though right know. take care.
2006-11-28 04:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheater....do you believe he loves you???????and a baby on the way??????If you love him I'm sorry for you if you want to suffer stay with him respect yourself and make a decision....âºâ»
2006-11-28 04:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋