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I met with this female friend last monday evening for intercourse. I wore a condom (that did not break) and I did not c*m; in fact, I have never been able to c*m with a condom on. So she calls me this weekend to tell me that she missed her period which she thinks (go figure) was supposed to be this past Fri or Sat. So having used a condom and not even cumming; what is the likelyhood that she is pregnant? And it wouldn't surprise me if she has maybe slept with someone else earlier this month (although she claims she didn't). She's already talking abortion... Anyone have any food for thought?

2006-11-28 03:47:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

23 answers

i think she's just acting out of guilt and fear. Its doubtful that if she were pregnant, you'd be the sperm doner.

While you're always 'leaking' sperm during intercourse, even when you dont climax, its unlikely that such a small amount found its way from the condom.

Unless maybe you didnt put the condom on before your penis touched or entered her...

Its all highly unlikely.

2006-11-28 03:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1 1

It seems unlikely that you'd be the father. In a typical cycle you ovulate about 2 weeks before your period. Of course not everyone has a typical cycle. But when you add together the fact that you didn't ejaculate, you wore a condom and she probably ovulated over a week before you had sex, then it probably isn't yours. But there's always a chance so if she is pregnant make sure to take a paternity test.

2006-11-28 03:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0 0

For one your shouldn't call women females its ugly. But I doubt shes pregnant. Alot of women miscalculate thier period if she says but it was 28 days. Tell her that not all women have 28 day cycles. Some have more or less days. Shes probably not late. Also was the condom sheepskin? Becuz sheepskin really doesn't protect against pregnancy or anything. They are like 50%. There is such a thing called precum and a women can become pregnant by it. I hope this helps you.

2006-11-28 04:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0 0

If you did everything you claim you did I doubt she is pregnant. At least not with your child. If she is already talking abortion she will probably be asking you for some money soon. If you truly believe you are not the father tell her to have the baby and get a blood test. Tell her that if she has your child you will provide for that child after its born. But state you aren't giving her any money until after the results are in. Tell her if she wants an abortion you will go with her to the clinic but won't pay for it. She will probably be really pissed at you but it will keep you from supporting a child that isn't yours or providing shopping money to a con-artist.

2006-11-28 04:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 0 0

she's probably not pregnant. She sounds like trouble. Beware of girls like that. Some will even fake a pregnancy you know. God bless, and may this all turn out OK for you.
Another thought, isn't it early for her to already think she's pregnant? She hasn't even had enough time go by to take a pregnancy test! If she continues, insist on being there when she does the test. Don't let her swap urine with someone else.

2006-11-28 03:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1 0

There is sperm in precum and well there lays the possibility, however if you were a condom and it didn't break or leak any kind of fluid the chances are back to what the package says, 99% effective.

Having sex right before a woman's period is due can sometimes delay it from coming, Relax, everything is cool.....

2006-11-28 03:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your probably right Chick..
She should take a test but i doubt she is unless of course she has had unprotected sex...
it wont be yours either way you can get pregnant from pre *** but even then u wore a condom i dont see the problem being with you she needs to get checked before she starts to panick...
Periods chnage all the time how regular are hers anyway?
She may just be looking for attention...
Depends on the girl we all do it sad i know but hey.....
Get her checked...
Then you'll know whether to panick or not....
Sounds like you ahve a good head on your shoulders you'll be fine.

2006-11-28 03:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0 0

From what you're telling, it's not possible for her to be pregnant with your child. The fact that you are still questioning this tells me that there's more to the story. Had you been intimate with her prior to last Monday? If you wore a condom the entire time and you did not c*m, why are you worried?

2006-11-28 03:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by qtpisunshine 2 · 0 1

This is not your baby! There is no way that she would know that she was pregnant if ya'll had sex last Monday. I hate to say it but she's a liar. I would politely tell her that you're not the father and ask her not to contact you. If she's talking abortion then it could be a money issue.

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