i met this guy over the phone. he called my number in error several times. eventually we began conversing regularly over the course of several months. he has the sexiest most seductive voice. anyway through his insistence we agreed to meet. he did admit to met he was in his forties. im in my twenties and was not looking for a relationship. we met last week finally and he is a total disappointment. although i only ever wanted a friendship i refuse to match the voice with this person. i mean we still do choose our friends dont we? i dont want to be shallow but i cant stomach him right now. he isnt ugly just very unattractive not to mention he looks his age. he told me he looks younger. i ve put him on hold. told him i would call him. should i continue with this?
2006-11-28 03:38:14 · 4 answers · asked by hopespringseternal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be straight up about your feelings, and let him know as soon as possible ,don't drag your foot .He may think you are leading him on and his calls may become frequent.
2006-11-28 03:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by dawnf21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can continue if you wish to, but you will face problems later onn because u have the right to choose right friend so you are better off telling him whats in your mind and go with your feeling dont be too mean butat the same time think about what u want to do. so slowly stop talking to him and he might get it!
2006-11-28 03:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by arnb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a preference and deserves what they want in a mate. And, just be honest with him (in a nice way) and he should be able to understand.
2006-11-28 03:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by ebonycountry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk to him, then don't. It's all up to you.
2006-11-28 04:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋