Ok over the thanksgiving holiday my boyfriend came down for a visit and well "it" happened. im 15 and i need to know should i go ahead and tell him that i might be p.g or do i need to wait untill i know for sure if i am or Not. he said if i was to get p.g and i got thrown out that i could live with him but idk i need help
2006-11-28 02:55:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he is turning 16 today soo dnt ask if he was like 19 or older
2006-11-28 02:56:17 · update #1
I would wait to see your prego test. If you are tell him asap. If your not don't even tell him about your scare and wear protection for sure. I was a mother at 15yrs old. So i am not passing judgment on you. Just be careful and wait to have children. Finish high school and get some college or some kind of training. if you are prego don't keep your hopes up that he will always be there either. if he will be there for you and the baby good for him. my sons dad said he would and he's mom broke that happy thought into a million pieces. and my son is now 7yrs old his dad just came back into his life all of a sudden just like a star falling out of the sky. i have been married to a great guy who treats him like his own so there are other options out there so don't think there isn't. but if your not prego take this a chance to make your life right. i wish someone could have been there for me telling me this and maybe things would have been different. GOOD LUCK! i would like to hear more if you don't mind. Email me!
2006-11-28 03:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him yet, it may scare him and no need to do that until you know for sure. I really hope you are not you are only 15, you still got a whole life ahead of you. I am not some old person trying to preach at you either i am only 19, but i have come so far in life. i am 19 i live on my own with no kids i bought my own 200,000 dollar house i have a nice car and things are going great. If you have a baby at 15 none of that will happen for you. I really hope you are not. Once you find out that you are not i would talk to your parents about getting on birth control. And i would go and talk to my mom right now and let her know what is going on so you can get checked out. Good luck and i hope everything works out!
2006-11-28 03:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by ihaveoceaneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you need to be more responsible. You dont want a child at such a young age. I was there once and its not that easy. It will and it can happen to you!!!! Your "boyfriend" will tell you he will be there and you will believe him but things happen and people change. My sons father and i were together for about 4 years and when i had my son at the age of 16 he stayed until my son was about a year old and it just wasnt for him anymore....Dont trust everything people say. Yes you need to tell him you might be pregnant. But seriously thanksgiving wasnt very long ago, so what makes you think you are pregnant? If you get away with a false alarm i hope you get yourself on birth control which is still not 100% so use a condom with that. You dont want to throw your life away so soon and thats what happens when you have a baby. It becomes THEIR life!
2006-11-28 03:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...you DEF. need to wait until you know for sure. No guy wants to go through a pregnancy scare...especially if they are only 15. Or 16...perhaps you should consider some method of birth control. Do you REALLY wanna get pregnant at this age? What are you, a junior in high school?? Not a good idea sweetie...
2006-11-28 03:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure I was p.g. before I told anyone.
You do not want to worry anyone or create a fight
with your parents if you do not need to. If he said
he would help than see what his answer will be when its for sure. Good luck
2006-11-28 03:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait til you know for sure. But definitely get your parents involved. They might surprise you and be a great source of comfort. 15 is very young but it happens and if it did you need to concentrate on getting/ staying healthy and figuring out the next step. Good luck to you.
2006-11-28 03:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Christina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would acctually wait to tell him and your parents. Because if you aren't pregnant and tell both of them they are going to freak out. Your parents will probably forbid you to talk to him again. And then if you find out you arent pregnant, they probably wont trust you again to be alone with him.
Also I would wait to tell him, because if it is just a worry, then you dont really want him to worry about it too. This happened to me too (I was 22 but...) I would rather just have myself worry than have someone else worry about it too. If you are late with your period, i would wait till the next week (because if you are stressed over this your period could be late) and then go and buy a test. If this comes out positive I then would tell the boyfriend and then both of you confront your parents.
Good luck hun!
2006-11-28 03:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Thanksgiving was only a couple days ago. You are both really young and for your sake I hope your not pregnant. Wait to tell him till you know for sure.
2006-11-28 03:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by volcomgrly23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off calm down. you wont if your pregnant for awhile. by the way when was your last period. that is important info. how is a 16 year old boy gonna help you he cant take care of himself any better than you can. get real. hes only able to get part time work legally. what makes you thibk your pregnant.this is why kids arent supposed to have sex
2006-11-28 03:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wait until you knew for sure. But I think it is too early to take a test. Wait for about a week or so then take one.
Good Luck!
2006-11-28 03:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋