I keep on hearing that hes cheating on with with his ex-girlfriend and that he like 4 OTHER GIRLS!!!! I don't kno what to do
2006-11-28 02:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by jinichick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you actually confronted him about this? Let me guess: he denied it. Consider the source of the rumors. Are they trustworthy? Could it be that someone else wants your boyfriend?
If you find out it's true, dump him immediately. If you can't trust him, there's no relationship. And he WILL continue to do it if you let him off the hook. Good luck!
2006-11-28 02:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gossip can be very destructive, sometimes it's based on nothing and sometimes it's based on fact. Before you let other people upset you with their rumors, talk to your boyfriend.
If you have known him for awhile, and you have a good relationship you should know whether or not you can trust him. Tell him what you're hearing and ask him if there is any truth to it.
If he's not doing anything wrong he shouldn't have a problem discussing it. If on the other hand, he's "defensive" and angry, maybe there is some truth to it. This is something the two of you are going to have to work out.
I wish you the best.
2006-11-28 02:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Investigate first. Dont confront him yet, if he really is cheating, he could lie low a bit so that you wont know. the best thing is to calm down for now- you're not sure yet anyway.
Always bear in mind, when there's a smoke, there's a fire going. so find out through those dissiminating the rumor. Given their statements only(no physical proof), it's up to you if you would need invetigation for yourself. espionage is not entirely bad, as long as your intention is to save youself an impending broken heart. Trust is unfixable once ruined, you might be putting it in danger but it is already in danger..... no time for hesitation.
2006-11-28 02:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by simplyJESSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u have to find out if its true from him.and if he says its true then dump him hes not worth it .u deserve somebody better .and if he says its not true then u know what to do .sometimes friends and closer friends of urs or his can make up stories.just to brake u both up.people like that are not ur true friends and people like that are jealous and thay have nothing better else to do but to ruin peoples relationships if they see u both getting along well and being happy together .and some are just nasty and horrible because they can't have what u guys have .so dig out the real story 1st before making that move.and some other people do care and are ur real friends .so good luck on that girl and take care
2006-11-28 02:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was truely innocent I highly doubt anyone would find things to tell you about him so I would look into it because it very well could be true. Think about it-if he werent the type to cheat or didnt in the past and he was all about you-why would anyone say anything?
2006-11-28 02:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should confront him about it and ask him if he's cheating on you or not and then wacth his action around you if he gets offeded and upset then he is definitly cheating but if he can be honest and calm then everythingis okay. I hace been in this same situation so I know how you feel.
2006-11-28 02:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by catdanpri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. See his reaction, that will tell you alot. Do it tactfully, whent he moment is right and he can't escape the question easily. When you are alone and in your house or something.
2006-11-28 02:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil, think no evil, investigate and act safely..wisely..
2006-11-28 02:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Drone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋