i love my boyfriend but everytime i do down to his house hes always with his friends and he don't like hes friends near me cuz they talk nasty but his friends are always around him. Sometime hes shy to come talk to me. What can i do?
2006-11-28 02:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by jinichick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simply ask him why it is that you and him always have to be around his friends when you visit. I get the feeling he's to nervous to with you alone due to his shyness. Tell him you want to spend some quality time with him, and him alone. If he balks, then don't visit as often.
2006-11-28 02:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe find out wot ur guy likes, cars, sport, playing pool etc and mention casually "speedways on Friday" or "i was given 2 ticks 2 the cricket" but u have 2 make him think it was his idea in the first place, that's the tricky bit! somewhere his mates won't go. make him come 2 u sometimes, don't be goin 2 his place all the time, a relationship has 2 be equal. he'll be less shy if ur on ur own together, but don't be 2 pushy a guy needs his mates.
2006-11-28 02:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to feel comfortable around his friends, and he should feel comfortable with you around his friends. If neither of you do, then there is a problem with your relationship. He either needs to change the people he interacts with, or you need to break up with him. I'm sorry if it must come to the second decision, but if it must happen, then let it be. I hope things turn out right for you.
2006-11-28 02:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey thats just how it is between me and my bf but what did is i asked all his friends where has he been and have they seen him cuz it hurts when i dont see him if u know his address then rite him a letter tellin him u guys need to talk and one more thing just ask a couple of his family members where his friends are.
2006-11-28 05:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by katie.1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are fairly young. Young people tend to have relationships that are low on the "respect" scale. Respect his desire to be around his friends. And he needs to respect YOUR desire to want more time alone with him. If he's not willing to do this, just move on... there are SO many fish in the sea.
2006-11-28 02:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get closer to him not here on net wasting ur time
2006-11-28 02:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? this seems like an adolescent "relationship" if you are over 15, dump him.
2006-11-28 02:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by claire l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play Twister.
2006-11-28 02:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what u should do!!!
it will get u an answer.
2006-11-28 02:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Malicious Intent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep sucking his ballz so he wont be with his friends
2006-11-28 02:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋