i sure he knows already and i think he feels the same about me. im afraid to make a more-than-friend relationship with him though because i dont know if it would ruin our friendship. im perfectly fine being this way with him. i like wondering how he feels about me, it makes me excited being around him because i never know what hes going to say to me. should i take this farther or just let things happen on their own?
2006-11-28 01:57:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
im absolutely positive that i do. ive been bestfriends with him for years.
2006-11-28 02:02:28 · update #1
YESSSSSS!! Go ahead!! Good luck!! Trust me it'll be worth it.
2006-11-28 01:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose? If you tell him you love him he may think it's a "friendly" love. I believe that you should take some time and write down how you feel and where you would like for the relationship to go if one transpires. Once that is done sit him down and tell him in a serious tone and setting what is on your mind. If he already makes you feel good then I'm quite sure he will feel the same way about you he just didn't have the strength to say it. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-28 10:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by sugarlove44104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient...
Let him discover how he feels for you and that he wants it to be more. Don't jump the gun. He's the man and when it's time, he will put his cards on the table; don't show your to soon and create a situation that could end making both of you uncomfortable or have you at his mercy in a sense. If you disclose all of your emotions and let him know you possibly want more than a friendship, it gives him the ability to have "options" and that's not what you're aiming for here.
Again, things will happen on there own if you let it...sounds like that's already what has happened anyway : )
2006-11-28 10:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that he has the same feelings for you and you really love him that much,yes you should!but be sure that this is not just an exciting feeling because of all this mystery between you two,cause when it will fade away things gonna be pretty bad.and a piece of advice:if you tell him do it in person!don't sent any email or call him!just face to face.
2006-11-28 10:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by alex355 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you shouild ever tell someone that you love them is if you really do. anyone needs to think long and hard about that 4 letter word.
2006-11-28 10:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by a.gatenby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you only live once and you could miss out on an opportunity for true love
2006-11-28 10:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by mystic chicklet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to tell him how you feel, and take it from there.
2006-11-28 10:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Leo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should attempt to tell him. just dont do it too suddenly or planned. wait till a time when you two are just hanging alone and ask him what would he do if you said you liked him more than a friend. it worked for me!
2006-11-28 10:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing sweeter than being in love with your best friend. I am lucky in that my best friend is my boyfriend and I am able to tell him that I love him, with all my heart, every day...
2006-11-28 10:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start by saying sweet things about him first ,tell him that he's too dear to you and he's just the one and only for you ,then see how he will react ...I think it will not ruin your relation with him when you express your feelings .
2006-11-28 10:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him, better now than never. you dont want to sit back later on down the road and be thinking "what if"
2006-11-28 10:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋