2006-11-28 01:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
do not do it, i will pray for you!
2006-11-28 01:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you that you're not the first old and married man to do such choice. I read about others men having the same problem though they have never been gay or feel no gayness properly.
Some of them affirmed that the sexuality had re-started and probably without that experience, the sexual life with the wife still had to worse. I know people having gay sex in the closet and being happy and satisfied of the situation, anyway. You've nothing to confess or to be afraid. It's just is the time when women sexuality (climacteric) go down or stop completely even. On the contrary men are still able to have sex being horny. I don't think you refrerred to love intercourses so I say, live the last time of your sexual life as you prefer, with no remora or regret, even if in the closet. It just isn't the case to pubblicize a such occasional and transient fact. At you age there's nothing to deepen or to justify!
2006-11-28 04:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices, leave your wife and be with men, or stay with your wife and only her. You don't get to play and stay.
I'm afraid what should I do??? Grow a spine. She won't forgive you for this, by the way. This feels like you lied through the entire relationship, you should have known this. You done crossed the line on this one. If you plan on staying, quit guys and shut up.
If you're just interested in anal sex, talk to your wife. Get her a strap on and watch her party on. You would be surprised at the number of women who would like nothing better than to give as good as they get.
2006-11-28 02:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a good idea. You run the risk of getting something and passing it on to her. A high risk! How would you feel if that happend to someone you love so much? And you are the one that caused it. Maybe you just have some weird sex fantasy that you should talk to her about, and she could help you out a little.
2006-11-28 01:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by edrick the cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a psychologist first of all. First you need to be honest with yourself about what you're feeling and know that its OK. Our culture puts a great deal of shame on homosexuality and that causes men to seek gay sex in dark and unhealthy ways. My first advice would be to speak to a professional about this. If they judge you or tell you its wrong, then do not see them anymore. A good therapist will listen to you and not pass any judgements on you. Secondly, until you have this better figured out I would stick to fantasies, porn etc... Should you decide you want to have a sexual experience with a man I would reccomend keeping it safe (mutual masturbation) and only that for now. You need to be confident in yourself to set boundaries with a man before you enter into a sexual relationship with one. Good luck
2006-11-28 02:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by RR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are at a stage that many men face they have been married but now they think that they may be attractived to men, before you go ruining a good marragie i say rent a lot of gay porn and see if that you happy and content if not then i think you should have a talk to your wife, dont try to play both sides that is how stds and hiv gets spread so much faster you have a right to be with whom you want to be but you should be 100% honest about it
2006-11-28 05:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by sevenandahalf7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot both have your cake and eat it too.
You ought to have thought this over back 27 years ago.
You should just accept your fate and stay with your wife. Too late now for switching to guys.
2006-11-28 02:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think you do you come out of the closet tell your wife you want another man to perform fellatio on you and you want to be the receiver in anal sex
goodbye wife it was good
when that is done go find a man
could it be any simpler
ohhhhhhhhh unless you one of those pr icks that get off on fu cking around on your wife
2006-11-28 01:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a Pshchiatrist!
2006-11-28 01:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u mentally ill u freak, look in the yellow pages under gays for rent
2006-11-28 02:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by chastity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you nit wit..its too late now...you made your choice, dont cheat on your wife, your just gonna get both of you infected with the aids or something...next life have the balls to know who you are.
2006-11-28 01:36:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋