One of the reason I hear some women say they would abort a pregnancy is because they don't want to bring a child into the world becaused it would not be wanted or loved by the mother. That sounds like a made up mine to me. I have children whom I sometimes wish I didn't have; and that feeling may last a day, a week, or more, hell, I feel that way about my wife sometimes. But, somewhere along the lines I remember the day our babies exited my wife's womb, and all the anxiety I had came to a end. Now our children are a extension of us.They are not the cancerous growth we thought they would be and had them removed before it was illegal. I thank God that my wife did not listen to me.
2006-11-28 01:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well, you are always gonna get all kind of answers on this question. It's so hard to say anything. You make a lot of sense on what you say but also it's a free country and people can decide whatever they wanna do with their lives. For example, I wouldn't have a baby that is the result of a rape, it would be too hard. But this is a very personal question and everybody has different opinions on it. I had an abortion once when I was 15 and sometimes I feel bad about it, but I also know that my life would have been so much different if I hadn't done that. I graduated with honors form high school and college, did my posgraduate studies..then got married and now I'm expecting my 1st...and this situation now has made me think about what I did before..as I said I feel bad sometimes because now I know how amazing it feels to carry a baby but there's nothing I can do about it now.
2006-11-28 01:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no matter what the child did not happen on its own and i believe its the irresponsible humans job to see that it is taken care of if not by the mother and or father then by some unfortunate soul who cannot bear children of thier own who will love care and probaly spoil the child i dont think its right to kill or to dump that human life in a trash can because there is always a way just like crazy folks claim they are overwhelmed so they kill thier babies and blame it on mental state im sorry but if you go next door and just say look i know i dont know u but im feeling an urge to murder my children will you baby sit i can almost guarentee they will do it they look at them crazy as hell but theyd do it sorry im just rambling on
2006-11-28 09:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by aengel69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you have done the right thing for yourself and your family. That's wonderful for you.
However. What is right for you, and your family, is not necessarily right for everyone else. You have no right to make a judgement call about other people, since you do not have to live with their circumstances, their problems, their life challenges. You can only judge what is right for YOU - not what is right for someone else.
You and your wife had the option to CHOOSE what you wanted, you chose to have children. Isn't that just wonderful! However, you have no right to make that choice for ANYONE else.
2006-11-28 09:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by sewmouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What those mothers don't tell you is that there are couples everywhere who would love to have a baby of their own, and can't. My SIL tried for five years before she was able to get pregnant with my niece, and she talked about adoption a lot.
But your wife is a smart lady. You should listen to her more often.
2006-11-28 09:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by I_didn't_do_it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is a hard subject, because there are alot of different views on it, but it sounds like you know what a wonderful thing our children are to us and your wife is one smart lady for not listening to you. but i think you are smart for being so honest and caring of your family. good luck to all of you!
2006-11-28 09:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with you and i am so glad that your wife did not listen to you as you have now been blessed with the most precious gift life can give to you! Congradulations!
2006-11-28 15:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your honesty is refreshing...I'm glad your wife didn't listen to you either...so don't get mad at her if she doesn't listen to you in the future :)
2006-11-28 09:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋