Okay,my bff jus broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago.and i have liked him for awhile now and we talk and hug( which by the way his hugs are very nice,lol)alot.But supposedly since im sooo pretty she's jealous of me because of that and because im skinny.Anyways, now she's not talking to me and i don't know why, but i wrote her a apology letter saying how sorry i was for anything i might have done to get her to stop talking 2 me and i also put that i would stop talking to her ex for awhile to see if that would get her um... un-mad at me.
WHAT SHOULD I DO, I LIKE HER EX ALOT AND I THINK HE LIKES ME BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM.
2006-11-28 00:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by fade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok first of all what you look like on the outside doesnt make you better than her. There are alot of other things that go along with a relationship. Second of all if shes your friend you never date her exs. Thats not right. Friends are suppose to stay together,,men come and go. So i suggest either back off of her ex or you are going lose your friend forever,,,but just remember if you choose a man over your friend you will be sorry in the end when he breaks your heart and your friend is not there for you anymore.
2006-11-28 00:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always followed the rule that it is off limits to date ex's of either my sister, or my good girlfriends.
All it does is ruin a friendship or cause a lifelong rift with your family, and 9 times out of 10, you will end up needing your friend or sis, and the guy will be long gone.
Guys come and go, true friends can be for life. Unless you date their ex's.
2006-11-28 00:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt want to go out with him anymore than she shouldnt be jealous or mad at you....So obviously she is jealous of you..
If you want to keep your friendship with her, dont go out with him.
If you dont care how she will feel, go out with him, and let her deal with it her own way..
If you have alot of friends in common, this could cause you to lose more than one friend... large circles of friends will talk behind your back and you will be the "enemy"....know what i mean??
2006-11-28 00:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends will always be there for you, men will not.
remember whats at stake by going out with him.
your friend needs you the most
and i wouldnt be so vain because vainty has its own price to pay
2006-11-28 17:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Who Wants A Lobotomy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel she is ur best buddy..and she jus broke up..so..wont be nice i gues to rush into things. maybe u jus need to give it some time. u sure he likes u for real? or jus playing arnd..
2006-11-28 00:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by necromancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple. If you go out with him you lose you BFF
You decide
2006-11-28 00:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Let him make the next move.
2006-11-28 00:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋