I really fancied this guy, but I'm a bit shy, so nothing happened for a bit. Later I introduced my friend to him, and then they started going out in about 3 seconds. I feel really angry and jealous but I know I'm being supid because I never told her that I had a thing about him. I don't feel I can steal him off her cos that would be really mean, and i value my friend over a boy, but all the same, the more I see him (which is a lot now) the more i like him... help!
2006-11-28 00:43:16 · 27 answers · asked by Jenni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep out dear or you will lose both of them
2006-11-28 00:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Everona97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there, ever. Let them be happy together. Try and avoid seeing him as well- see your friend without him being there so there's no temptation. Maybe this will be the push you need to come out of your shell a bit more, cos shy girls never get what they want. Good luck.
2006-11-28 00:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that that tends to be an uncomfortable situation.. You should have told her from the beginning but you can't turn back time. You know you would be wrong to try and "steal" him, but let me just remind you that if this is truly your friend, and you genuinely care about your friendship.. DON'T CROSS THAT LINE.. If it bothers you that much, be straightforward with your friend. Tell her you've liked him from the beginning, and choose to keep space between you and him.. In the meantime, perhaps you should focus on meeting/dating someone else... There are MANY "fish in the sea" chances are once you meet another that you like, you will forget about your crush on yor friends boyfriend.
2006-11-28 04:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before your friend came along, this guy and you didn't hit, so you can't really blame it on your friend. Ask yourself why you like this guy... and find someone else like him or better than him. This guy's taken, and trying to steal him is only going to ruin your relationship with your friend, and also says something about the guy. If he can leave your friend for you, what does that say about him in the future? But chances are, since you two had time to develop before your friend came along, I doubt he is up for stealing... so go find someone else better. He is not meant to be for you, but someone better and more suitable is.
2006-11-28 00:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid them for a while to give yourself time to get over him!
You sound like a good friend... but the girl sounds a little competitive, and things have moved a little fast so maybe the boy's not all you thought he was.
2006-11-28 00:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by internits 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's trying to provoke a reaction from you (...they started going out in about 3 seconds...) because he got no vibes from you when you had your chance. Don't force the issue or you'll your friend. Be patient, and see what happens. And remember, if it is destined to happen, it will.
2006-11-28 01:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Stealthbong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ho dear,
this is a hard one for you how long have you been friends with her for and how long have you been friends with this guy?
what you need to do is take a look back and say to yourself what am i doing i really fancy him why did i not make the move on him. then you need to think why did i get my friend with him for now you want both of them it seems to me and that is going to be hard . have you ever spoke to her about him before she got with him does she no you fancy him. have you ever spoke to him about this in private maybe he does like you and did not no how to make the move on you . all i will say is friendship is hard to find and if you have a good friendship with her do you really want to spoil that over a man . just have a good think before you do anything at all . good luck with this and i wish you all the best.
2006-11-28 05:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by J C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for your friend and like that guy, then let the guy go.
It's just not worth it fighting with a friend over a guy who would later on break up with the both of you.
Go out there and find someone else.
2006-11-28 00:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by cass 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay away things will get much worse. I know you prefer your friend to him so try to arrane to meet her on an occasion when she isn't with him a girly night out or even just a pizza and a dvd. The more you see him the more you like him
2006-11-28 01:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under no circumstances do anything. You had your chance and now he s with your friend. If you try and come between them it will only end in tears. Go and make new friends and eventually you will meet a bloke that you feel comfortable enough around to go for it!!
2006-11-28 00:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so sad.they are just feelings they will go away, ti's becoz u see this guy that u fall more in love with him. the further away you can be from him , the better! try and take an interest in someone else and when u go see your friend, make sure the guy is not there. and do not disscuss about him.
2006-11-28 00:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by cool babe no.1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋