she told her husband she had cancer so had to have an abortion which gutted her husband when the facts are she didnt know who the babys dad was i wish i didnt know and at the time i thought i was doing the best thing for her husband and son not to say anything but i recently discovered that she has continued having the affair that got her into this mess and has had a baby that could well be the other mans child i have stopped talking to her now because of this how can some women be so heartless and take it out on inocent children for their mistakes and is she in the right as she always says she is
2006-11-28 00:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
people like that dont deserve children. she needs to grow up and take care of those kids!!!!
2006-11-28 00:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by gorjis gal 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I find it quite heartless that an unborn child was punished because she can't keep her legs together. BUT! On the flip side of the coin, I'd rather see her have an abortion than have a child that is unwanted and unloved. Not saying the father wouldn't have wanted it, but she most certainly does not, therefore one could assume that if she had of went ahead and had the child she could have abused it out of anger for being stuck with it. So, really, which is worse? Abortion or possible abuse?
2006-11-28 08:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you acknowledge that she is heartless is a step in the right direction. Time to move away from this person and learn from her mistakes. I understand women wanting their "right" to have an abortion, but I totally disagree the thought of using it as a form of birth control.
Signed - a single mom with two wonderful reasons to live every day.
2006-11-28 08:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by redslippers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is extremely heartless. Im so sorry for this baby that will never grow and feel the warmth of his or her mommy and daddy'd love. So sad. Cheating is horrible enough but then to not have the decency to at LEAST use protection to prevent any pregancies is awefully stupid and not to mention she couldve brought home some diseases to her husband.
2006-11-28 08:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is brutal & selfish to the core. Thats why ancient people call the lady a perennial enigma!!!In this case, it is just cold blooded murder for convenience. She is a whore and just wants love less sex.My only complaint is that you also supported this initially. It was a matter between the husband and wife and you thought you have helped her!! Now you know!! She will destroy any obstacle in her way for her own interests!!
2006-11-28 08:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
abortion is murder unless the doctors say that the baby has under a 10% chance of living she could of adopted the baby out to a family that can not have children and really wonted on
2006-11-28 08:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by roza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a very mean thing telling her husband that she had cancer so she had 2 get rid of her baby she should have been honest with him and all i can gather is that she doesnt care about anyones life but her own i wouldnt be talking to her either and no u tell her she is not in the right
2006-11-28 08:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was a heartless act! Rom 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
2006-11-28 08:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK. This is possibly the sickest thing I've ever heard. Not only would I not talk to her, but I would tell her husband. There must be some kind law against this.
2006-11-28 08:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by siany warny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right or wrong, who are we to judge another. In her mind she feels right, due to it not being her husbands. she isn't able to see or choose not to see the whole picture. It isn't her husbands Because of HER. she cant loOK at herself. To hard.
Having no respect for her is ok and not wanting to be around someone you don't respect is OK. let if go at that, you cant change her, she is the only one and one day she will have to come face to face with herself. she will break and break down hard.she will loose more.
2006-11-28 08:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's always easier to judge when u are not in the situation yourself.. god knows what or even if she is thinking.. you are right to close off contact if this is against your beliefs... i would do the same.. i would advise u to stay out of the mess though, lots of people like to shoot the messanger, so don't think about "telling" on her.. what goes around comes around, she will "reep her rewards" for what she has done, she's hurting a lot of people and herself in the long run..
just don't judge her, and move on...
good luck! :)
2006-11-28 09:14:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋