What can you do when you are very unlucky in your life and everything go wrong? I don't do nothing but without knowing i destroy everything or by coincidence i am in the middle of issues that are very important and being the blamer without knowing again? What can i do?
2006-11-28 00:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by music princess 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, don't let yourself become a victim.
Mostly people blame others base on what they expect from others in their own self portraits of perfection. When others didn't give what they expected, they blame and judge.
You have to see life from the other side I guess. I mean when you feel unlucky, that's only your feeling... even the situation itself only.. only seemed unlucky, but it's not necessarily like that at all. You have to think that when things go wrong and seem not like what you expected, then I think you need 2 say... it's just common coincidence. One had nothing to do with others. And try to keep in mind that nothing's perfect. We are all imperfect.
I know it's hard... but let's try, as I do as well. ; )
2006-11-28 00:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2+2=5
2006-11-28 08:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by ghsalamatbashi2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will probably not help--but--live one day at a time. Sometimes you can not even do that--live one moment at a time. I'm thinking you are blaming yourself for things that are not your fault. Try to not make any decisions without thinking them over carefully--sometimes days. You are probably dealing with too many things at once and it seem to be piling on your head and you feel that you are sinking. Stop. Take some deep breaths and calm down. Go slowly. Try to take one thing at a time. Deal with one thing at a time. You are not at fault. Things happen and you are just getting an overload. And, if you believe in God--pray. That is a very good reliever. Good luck. Best wishes
2006-11-28 08:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really stressed-out! You know blame is never helpful, whether you're angry at yourself or others. Best way forward is to try to be as calm as possible.
Think positive... it may seem like you're really unlucky, but you may not be in as bad a position as you think. We all have it tough sometimes...
Maybe things can only get better... sometimes a crisis can show you the way forward.
2006-11-28 08:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by internits 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are a person who delves(jumps into) any and all conversations and also into situations that you might see or FEEL that you must be a part of... I suggest that you back off and analyze the situation, whatever it is, and if you feel that you do not know the situation well enough to offer something, stay out of it.. I cannot say to be LESS active but rather, to be more analytical in what you do
2006-11-28 08:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We make our own reality. It sounds like you are suffering from some type of depression. Either it could be related to your brain chemistry or it could be the result of some kind of emotional trauma you have experienced in your life.
There is too much to discuss here, I think you really need to go ask a professional. If you arent prepared for that just yet contact me and I will discuss further.
2006-11-28 08:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by delprofundo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you a bit down and a little hard on yourself. first you need to to think of something good in your life ,i'm sure thers something. no-one can have all bacd luck even though it seems like it. i had a terrible week last week but that god it seems to be over now. some one told me that bad luck comes in threes whick made me feel worse at the start but after the third terrible thing happening i was hopeful that my bad spell was over and things could only get better and they did.
I'm sure it will be the same for you.
good luck and keep your chin up.
2006-11-28 08:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kamala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to worried about every thing and that is what is makeing you make feel that way. You are afraid of making a bad decision because you think you are unlucky when your not. You are lacking self confidence
2006-11-28 16:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, life sucks. it just does. nothing is fair. what's important is what you do when life isn't fair to you. if things just "happen to you" i can't tell you what you should "do" to change the fact, since you don't "do" anything to make these things happen in the first place. unless, maybe that's not completely true. maybe you should evaluate these situations to determine if you really didn't help the unfavorable outcome. oh, don't get me wrong, things do happen that are beyond our control. those situations...i mean, what can you do? nothing. just move on from those and get on with your life.
2006-11-28 08:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Today is a new Day"
2006-11-28 08:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by whirlwind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋