You know a person tells tales behind your friend's back, and your friend happens to trust this person. What would you do? Pretend you don't know or you'd tell your friend about this person?
2006-11-27 23:06:56 · 11 answers · asked by danielle s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
depends on your friendship with the girl being talked about. Personally I would stick up for my friend next time this girl says something and tell her not to be so 2faced and if she has a problem with your friend she should address it to her and not go behind her back
2006-11-29 17:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for a fact that this person "tells tales behind your friend's back" then your friend has a right to know! If it was you, wouldn't you want someone to tell you?
2006-11-28 07:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by keyslagoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you dont want to get anything started between them but I would tell my friend. I wouldnt care that the person that talks behind my friends back isnt my friend anymore. This person cant be a friend because she cant be trusted with personal information you might share with her.
2006-11-28 07:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will do nothing. Reason behind this is that a true friend would not accept and listen anybody's lie tales about me, whether he is at my friend's back or anywhere else
2006-11-28 07:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Gursharan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are friends then they will learn to forgive each other and you as well for bringing it to the surface. I wouldn't tell one with out the other being there....I would confront them both at the same time...letting them know that you think they need to talk out their issues.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-28 07:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned through much experience that you have to let the person find out for their self. If not they could pull you into a big drama bash & you will be the guest of honor.
2006-11-28 07:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would gently confront the person dropping mud on people's name's and say to them "It makes me uncomfortable when you talk about----, because I'm friends with them too. So I'd like it if you didn't talk about them in front of me."
2006-11-28 07:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Toni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to stay away from drama i wouldn't tell them..but if your not close with this person, then i would tell your friend.
2006-11-28 07:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by kait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend, that's what friends are for!
2006-11-28 07:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend ofcourse, whats the use of bein a friend if u don help in such simple things?!
2006-11-28 07:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋