i have a freind named maces and he is guy what do i do. last time i caut him in the bathroom with a boy and he was kissing him i kow he saw me but he does not want to say anything. know he is going out wit a boy. i don't know if i want to introd in his bisness or just let it go. he is trying to tell me that. that was his brother but it was not.
2006-11-27 22:05:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If maces is really your friend and you want to continue being friends with him although he is gay then you should let him know that whatever he does with his personal life is not your business and that you will continue to be his friend.
If you don't want him to 'hit on' you in that way, let him know as well.
If however, you feel that you cannot under any circumstances continue being friends with Maces then you should part with him amicably and move on!
2006-11-27 22:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by triniprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it your business. It is sad that due to social pressures from people who are bigots he feels that he has to kiss boys in the bathroom and probably have random sex, rather than having a boyfriend and a real relationship -- but that's the way it is for him.
Help him or leave him alone -- don't harm him because of what he is.
Kindest thoughts,
Reynolds Jones
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
http://www.rebuff.org
2006-11-28 02:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must mean "gay". Don't do anything mate, just support him. Coming out of the closet is an extremely tough decision to make for gays, and it should be done on their own terms or it can cause deep trauma and even suicide for some.
2006-11-27 22:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do 2 things 1 is you can be a good friend and talk to him about it or the other thing is to let it go so way he gay it's none your consent is it?
2006-11-27 22:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and show him that it doesn't matter what his sexual orientation is. Don't bring up the topic, and don't shy away from him either. When he sees that you accept him, even though you saw him in the act, he will trust you.
You must just accept people as they are as long as they're not hurting you.
2006-11-27 22:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bhagwad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and talk. its a uncomfortable topic but you have to let him know that if this is his wish that you'll still be his friend. being gay is not like a cold you just can't catch it. let him know that you appreciate that he does not try this on you. respect him and he must respect you.
2006-11-27 22:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know someone who is a guy? 49% of the population are male so I think you might meet a few more in your life...get used to it.
2006-11-28 00:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many people who are "guy", what does that have to do with this section? Just wondering.
2006-11-27 22:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like he doesnt want to confide in u.
get real pissed together and tell him u support his desicion and r there for him etc, tell him he can trust u, and yno he's bound to tell u the truths then.
2006-11-27 22:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you do anything?
What is there to do?
I don't see the point to your questions here... o.O
Do you like him or something?
2006-11-27 22:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋