Here's the deal; the love of my life Lauren is visiting her father and brother who live out of state. They are trying to get her to leave me and move 1,700 miles away. Her dad is basically offering her a free ride to do this. He is offering to pay her way with just about everything, send her back to college, pay her bills, car etc... He has never met me, so he doesn't understand that his daughter is my life. I would walk to the ends of the world to get her back. He doesn't like the fact that I am in the entertainment industry and I can be a 'has been' any minute. While I do well now, that's not good enough for him. I set up an e-mail address for you all to send letters to, laigner06@comcast.net, These are for her to read. I would GREATLY appreciate it if you could say stuff like, "Kevin thinks the world of you. We are all pulling for you two", "Stay with Kevin" etc... Anything reallyCan you also mention that you love the film, "On the line" She has just learned 1 of my 'writing names'.
2006-11-27 21:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lauren means the world to me. I can't lose her, especially to a man who left her when she was little. Please, I beg of all you to help me. If you know how it feels to want to give the world to someone then you know how I feel.
2006-11-27 21:49:10 · update #1
So, you're asking me to lie for you, and cyber-stalk someone I've never heard of?
Thanks, but I don't think so.
Good luck.
2006-11-27 21:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can appreciate your situation my friend, but you are looking at it in the wrong way. If she wants to be with you, no bribery about paying her expenses will keep her from you! If that's all it took, you should let her go! Hell, if someone loves you, she will make it work DESPITE what other people say... including parents. If she can be persuaded with such things as PAYING HER BILLS, I suggest to you that she is not ready for/or interested enough in a relationship at this time. I've had many relationships. I am married now... very happily... for 6 years. I even had a NINE YEAR relationship with a woman! Breaking up was brutal. But after many relationships I have become much wiser. And the one big lesson I learned is that if all the elements are there for a relationship to happen, it will happen, no matter what. And if it doesn't happen, then it likely wouldn't last if it was "forced" to happen. If it's right, then no forcing... convincing.... or emailing laigner06@comcast.net is needed. Still, you will likely ignore this advice... and I guess I would have too when I was younger... but I thought I'd take a moment to share it with you. Good luck!
2006-11-28 05:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by SoCalAgency 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to her as to what she wants to do. apparently she has told her father something to make him think she is not happy where she is in her life and he wants to help her get back on track. Sounds like it might be something she wants to do. School is definitely not a bad thing for her. If your relationship is strong enough it can wait till she is finished with schooling. Good luck to the both of you. If its something she wants best thing is to be a strong man and stand beside her and encourage it.
2006-11-28 05:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by okwhteva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to her dad? let him get to know you. if you're a good guy and can show how responsibile you are then he'll ease up. if he finds out what you're doing, getting other ppl involved, he might think you're nuts. getting a bunch of emails, even o your behalf, would get annoying real fast. send her flowers, call her, visit her while she's there. meet the man face to face. bring some of your misuc with you. be strong. write a song especially for her. don't get millions of people invovled.
2006-11-28 05:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop begging. What a turn-off. There's a reason her dad is basically paying her to leave you. Look, if it's supposed to happen it will. Just relax.
2006-11-28 05:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love something set it free if it comes back it is yours to keep if it doesn't it was never meant to be?? she might need to do this for herself support her and try a long distance relationship if you truly love each other it will work good luck think about her life not just yours
2006-11-28 05:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r written matter conveys all ur feelings about ur love wat can i do 4 u . i really understand ur condition . ne help u can convey it 2 me frm here n Kevin GOD is there n he will listen 2 u if ur love is true.so do take care of urself n "best of luck "4 ur relationship.
2006-11-28 05:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by jaspriya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll see what i can do.... ;)
2006-11-28 05:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋