How many people think having sex at 14 is a bad idea?

Question

So i lost my virginity at 14, almost 15 and i dont regret it really. Who agrees that its ok if you're ready and who disagrees?

Answer 1

I DO!!!

Answer 2

I'm 15 and I disagree, I don't think it's right to have sex at the age of 14.
I personally wouldn't have sex with a guy even if I loved him dearly. He would just have to wait until I'm ready, because if he couldn't wait, well then he's not the right guy for me.

Answer 3

It really is too young. You never think that you are "too young" but when you look back when you are older you will probably regret it. It is just too much of an emotional and physical thing to be getting into when I'm sure you have more important things to concentrate on. Plus if you were to get pregnant or an STD that will be really hard to deal with. I hope you rethink your decision and are at least extremely careful if you choose to do it again.

Answer 4

It's definitely a BAD idea. You're still a child, you're not ready for all the responsibilities and consequences that come along with having sex. Think about it, you can't even drive a car yet, and you think you're ready for sex?
Are you ready to handle the risk of STDs or having a baby? How much of an income do you have at 14 years old to raise a baby?
Too many kids don't think about the consequences of their actions, only to whine later about their mistakes. If you're really mature, you'd know better, imo.

Answer 5

I am glad that you are not having guilt feelings over what has already happened since this would only be harmful to you. I think that a person should wait until they are an adult and better able to understand all of the problems that could possibly arise from having sex. Sex can cause emotional problems and also medical problems. At least use protection.

Answer 6

I lost mine at 14 and I wish all the time I would have waited until I found someone who cared for me. You are really young but if you felt you were ready then I guess its o.k. just be careful because you got a long way to go and a lot to learn.

Answer 7

Way too young. Ask yourself, are you ready to be a parent? I say that because that is a possibility even if you use protection. If the answer to that question is "no" then you should seriously look at what you are doing and the chance you are taking with your future. Also, seriously ask yourself how this could effect your relationship with your future mate (ie, would it reduce the intimacy of a permanent relationship).

Answer 8

Yes, everyone who doesn't want to go to jail for statutory rape. Plus, many people at that age aren't fully equipped to deal with the emotional and physical aspects of sex.

For example, how many very young people know what STDs they can get and how? I doubt a pharmacist would sell condoms to a 14 year old, who probably also doesn't know very much about alternative methods of contaception, so contraception is a problem too.

Also, if a girl starts having sex a younger age, she also has a higher risk of some kind of ovarian or uterus condition - I can't remember precisely what it is, but my gynaecologist told me about it years ago.

Answer 9

i think that it is way to young. all the girls i know that had sex at that age had children at the age of 18 or 19 and they regret it they didn't regret it then but sure do now. i waited until i was 19 ( and I'm happy i waited ) a lot of times kids your age have pressure to have sex i did when i was that age all my friends where having sex but i was strong enough to wait until i found the right guy who I'm still with today. most of those guys will not stay with you just because you gave it up

Answer 10

ok i lost it at 14 almost 15 when i lost it too and even then i knew it was too young but i did it my boyfriend of 3 years and i was glad it was with him because ive never had any other boyfriend treat me that good. now im 18 and i look back on it and still think it was way too yuong and i wish i had someone around who could have helped me with that but even so i dont regret it because it is what i chose to do and i think that if you go on regreting stuff liike that then it will ruin the idea of sex when your older and it kind of screws with your head so just be careful!

Answer 11

I agree with you. I don't know how old you are now, but if you took the proper precautions and you were ready for it, then I think it is fine. Age shouldn't determine when you are ready to do that. It should be determined by when you are ready mentally and if you were at 14 then that is perfectly fine.