i have this friend and to be honest shes a little excitable at times and she does the weirdest of things.Normally i find her cute but last night she pushed the boundrys.I was just laid in bed watching "celebrity"when she came bursting through the door wearing nothing but a bikini,ski goggles and slippers and started bouncing like a crazy nutter all over my bed screaming"what an amazing jungle!!!"this was bad enough until i noticed she had a mr.whippy in her hand and it was dripping all over the new duvet cover.I told her i was really annoyed and innsisted she leave.She stopped bouncing and stuck the mr.whippy cone up her nose and ran off laughing like a mad woman.Ive woke up to the neighbours on my street fuming with the noise she made and saying if i dont stop her visiting they,ll report me,What shall i do?Im obviously angry but shes my mate(even though shes nuts)
2006-11-27 21:32:52 · 23 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bloody hell you don't need a friend like that, what with the mention of Ice-creams, jumping on the bed, and her fascination with 'amazing jungles'... She sounds wacky.
Get out of this distructive relationship now, and find some-one who respects you and your surroundings.
I still remember my neighbour from years ago, who suffered from really bad tourettes. In the middle of the night she would run round the garden shreiking at imaginary bats screaming 'Hot Sticky Buns' I decided to become chairman for 'Neighbourhood watch', and in the end we managed to pack her off to the loony bin.
You should listen to your neighbours, and stop her visiting... You don't really want to be upsetting them.
Good luck x
2006-11-27 23:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Coley 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
She's your friend, so you can tell her that her behavior annoys you at times and I bet she'd understand. You can even put it lightly..you don't have to sit her down and have a serious talk. Just make it known that she's being too over the top. If she doesn't get the hint, or keeps acting the way she is, try hanging out with other friends, and spending less time with her. When she realizes what you're doing, she'll get her act together. (It might just be a phase, and she'll settle down soon enough)
2006-11-28 05:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by rosie19302 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are looking for sympathy here then you are out of luck ,,,, What's the matter ? Can't you take a joke ,?,,, She sounds like a fun person to be around to me ,,,, Maybe you ought to re-think your situation ,,,, You said she's your friend ,,,, If you consider what she's done a fault well then ,,,, I true friend is a true friend when they know your faults and still like you anyway ,,,, So she's a zany person ,,,, Don't you think you'll laugh about this later on ?? Think about it and give it a try ,,,, She didn't burn your house down or make you bleed ,,,,, As for the neighbors ,,,, Let them yell ,,,, From what you've explained she's not hurting any one ,,,,,,
2006-11-28 08:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd start by listening to the neighbors. Tell her she can't visit for a month because the nieghbors are making trouble because of all the noise she made.
If she was really your friend she wouldn't have behaved so badly.
2006-11-28 05:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this kind of behaviour is completely normal though i`m a little worried that she stuck the mr. whippy on her nose. most people i know stick the mr. whippy in their left ear. i must admit her dripping the mr. whippy all over ur duvet cover was well out of order and personally speaking would of given her the nipple clamp treatment for doing that! it sounds to me like ur neighbours might be a little bit jealous so maybe next time ur friend does this get her to pay all ur neighbours a visit. another concern i have is did the mr. whippy have a flake in it? that could of quite easily lodged itself clean up her nose missing her brain by 5ft. definately get her to stick it in her ear next time for everybody`s piece of mind. i must admit that now and again wen "i`m a celebrity" comes on t.v. i sometimes put a thong on back to front and goggles wiv a pair of flippers and i go outside shouting "i`m not a celebrity but get me in there anyway". my neighbours love me. they even phone the police up so they can watch the spectacle too and they give me a nice ride in their patrol car and introduce me to these fantastic people that wear white coats. these people in white coats love setting me a challenge everytime. they put this special jacket on me and they really get into the spirit of things by saying "go on get out of that then u little b*st*rd"! such fun people but i never seem to get out of that jacket. sometimes they leave me to try for months wivout success. i`ll crack it one day though!
2006-11-28 09:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by graham f 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend obviously has a colourful personality and it could be this unique feature that cements your friendship. Tell your neighbours to lighten up and your friend to cool down a bit...
2006-11-28 07:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a stronger lock for the bedroom door nelly!
2006-11-28 05:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jon B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl relax yourself, better to have a mad, crazy friend
then to have a friend who is a sad sack.
AND Ecks T Mate is Friend.
2006-11-28 06:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get the mr whippy ice cream van to turn the jingles off?
2006-11-28 05:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by ahhyesh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try talking to her in a calm setting and telling her how you feel
2006-11-28 05:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋