Okay, friend of mine made an inappropriate comment about me to a mutual friend while out one night. I sent her a SMS basically letting her know what I'd heard, but not accusing or having a go at her, just giving her and oppurtunity to explain what happened from her viewpoint.
Rather than speak to me about it she has told all of our friends that I am a troublemaker and I cause trouble for her for no reason at all.
I don't think that confronting her over a hurtful comment is ME causing trouble!
Our friends know what she is like and are not getting involved but the fact that we have mutual friends means that we will have to see each at social gatherings, I am happy to simply ignore her but I know that when she gets a few drinks into her she will start carrying on at me, what should I do??????
Please note - I am embarrassed to say we are not school kids we are adults aged 33.
2006-11-27 20:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by PHOEBE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is a drunk and she is jealous....if you are 33 you know that by now....sorry if this sounds short but let her go..there are some friends that we may love but have to say by-by to, sounds to me like she is one of those...goood luck.
2006-11-27 21:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ignore her, and hope for the best if there are any gatherings. You may want to stay away from the next few gatherings too.
You may also want to call her or write her a note or an e.mail and simply say, "Susie, I'm sorry if my asking about the comment seemed to you like I was trying to get trouble going. Maybe I misunderstood what was really said. Maybe I shouldn't have asked you about it over SMS. Can we just forget that there was any comment to be misunderstood at all and start over?"
You and she could maybe agree that you'll need a little time to get past the awkwardness but that a "misunderstood" comment isn't worth having issues over long-term.
If you try to clear it up between you it doesn't mean you have to hang out with her, but maybe it would make the situation more pleasant when it comes to times you're in her presence. (The real trouble-maker is the person who told you what "Susie" said. The truth is you can't be sure it was passed along within the right context.)
2006-11-28 05:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
33 eh?
do what i do.
me: he you, i dont like you. *punch them in the face*
suck on that...
Them: *lying on the ground crying..*
hehe. lol
shes a drama queen, she'll never stop doing what she does.
2006-11-28 04:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should prove to other people that you aren't like she's said!
2006-11-28 05:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Haku_Chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i htink you should ignore her for good
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2006-11-28 05:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋