5 years ago, i met one man and some magic happened to my eyes and my heart.later i know that it was fall in love.and now i know that i love him so true.but when he and everybody asked me why i love him?i just can't give them the answer.sometimes i seeems don't know the answer but sometimes it seems too many answers which i can't tell them all.i never want his money unless want him to buy me underwear and some small gifts,i never want to break his marriage. but he left me for left me for another woman. i am still love him and hope that he will come back one day in my life. i feel really depressed and regret, i left my job and don't know what to do? but i wonder if i really love him or coz i want him to be my friend,to look after me. coz i also want him to be with me and have baby with me,i need his love. am i love myself or i love him? can someone tell me? and tell me should i wait for him or not?? and tell me if any counsellor or doctor on internet i can talk to.
2006-11-27 20:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay away from him! He is married! That is not fair to his wife! How would you feel if your husband was cheating on you with another woman? Not so good! Why would you want a man that is cheating on his wife anyway? THat shows you what kind of a person he is! He is commiting Adultery and you are too by being with him! I have no respect for any woman that would sleep with a married man! There are tooo many men out there for you to try to be with someone else's husband! Don't be a home wrecker! Find your own man! You don't need a therapist you just need to find a new man to get your mind off this married man. He will never be with you! He is married, he wouldn't have married the other woman if he didn't love her! So obviously he wants to be with her, and you should not try to break up a marriage no matter how dysfuntional it is, you just need to stay away and have no further contact with that man!! He's married!!! Why would you even go after him in the first place, that is just showing that you have no respect for yourself! I will never understand why woman put themselves in these situations! WHY???? next time you are looking for a man, find one that doesn't have a ring on his finger and have a little self respect!
oh and that guy up there jeff l, he is exactly right! you just want what you can't have! It is exciting! It is wrong, that is why you like it, you like sneaking around. I think you should tell his wife about the affair, she has a right to know!
2006-11-27 21:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by uneverknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there well for starters he is married and you dont stand a hope in hell of him leaving his wife so he has all his comforts at home with her and when ever it takes his fancey he comes to you for extra pudding ,,,,,if you get what i mean .you have left youre job and put youre life on hold for something that will never be youres as he is with his wife ......wake up sweetheart and move on there is plenty of other males out there that do not have wifes and are treating you like dirt .....please do youre self a favour and finish it with this man .....ha thats a joke ....more like slime ball ,and there is another thing if or when the wife finds out for starters i wouldnt want to be any where near that explosion there is no way that she will walk away as she will be fighting for her pride and she will also want to get back at the pair of you ......give youre self some time and finish this and move on to a man that will treat you with respect and love you for you and you can love him with all youre heart and have kids together instead of this half hearted thing with this slime ball at the moment you want youre kids to know there dad on a full time basis or do you want to have to explain to them that daddy is just going back to his wife we will see him when he can fit us in .........do you really want that type of relationship .......i hope you dont ......good luck and take care xx
2006-11-28 05:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a simple answer, you are in love with the guy because he is unattainable. You want what you can't have. I think it keeps excitement in the heart rather than the dull and boring "happily ever after" lifestyle.
2006-11-28 04:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't wait for him, you'll be waiting and WASTING, the rest of your life. Sometimes we can't help who we fall in love with, but you know in your heart that this is wrong. Leave him now. This bastard has the best of both worlds. YOU are blind to it because you are in it. Get out!! Then, you will see the light.
2006-11-28 04:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's natural and normal to feel that way. even though i'm married now, with a baby, i know some girls still want me to be their boyfriend. but i can't. because of my wife and baby. maybe you can talk to his wife, and see about moving in with them. you could be their maid. then you could see him everyday, and he could look after you. that would be wonderful for everybody.
2006-11-28 05:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by manna eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to face the truth. he is married now. change your position with his wife. do you like someone to grab you man`s heart?!i don't think so... let him go And live happily!!!
2006-11-28 04:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some writing courses and forget about him.
2006-11-28 04:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by PAUL_THE_WISE_ONE_TRUST_ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You're playing with "fire" and you're gonna get burned!!
2006-11-28 05:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋