im changing.how do i change bck?

Question

i use to be really creative , smart and socialble, but now, i cant seem to communicate with anyone, its like the world starts to dislike me.i dont know why..i start to lose my flair and my social life has taken a downfall.and my creativity becomes close to nothin. why is this happening?it s been goin on for 3 yrs alrdy, im a total loser for this period of time.i juz can seem to speak or even think...im getting less and less popular, and i haf only my old friends. im going on to another school and its time to make new ones...but im afraid becuz of this..ill haf 0 friends.yea a total loser to be simple. can someone help me? ive been trying to find solutions. or is it people do change alot when they grow up?

Answer 1

The purpose of life is to recreate anew you, in each of the golden moment of now. Demonstration always precedes experience. That is, you'll experience what you demonstrate. That which you wish for yourself, give away to another.

You want a friend, be a friend for others.
You want to be happy, be a source of the happiness for others.

If you are doing something as a demonstration that the result has already been produced, then you'll have larger & larger experiences of this truth. Treat everyone & everything as an extention of your self. You'll start seeing changes in your life.

Following is my favorite prayer;

Thank you, God, for helping me to understand that this problem has already been solved for me. Thank you for helping me to see and embrace the solution. Thank you for helping me to rest easy in the knowledge that what is occurring right now IS the solution...and that it is not necessary to ‘push the river’, but only to go with the flow. As I understand that even before I ask, you will have answered. And thank you for helping me to see, beyond this, there really is no real problem at all, but rather, a set of circumstances allowing the soul its next best opportunity for advancement. Thank you, God, for all of life, and for the comfort that comes from knowing that what I have said is so. And now, show me what, if anything, I, myself, can do to assist in CAUSING it to be so---for I am at cause in the matter, as are you, God Within Me, now and always, in all ways. Thank you, God for another day & another chance to be my Highest Self. Amen, and amen."

Answer 2

People do change as they grow older, however there maybe a cause for your change.

Think back to around the time you started to change, was there an event or something that could have triggered it? If there was you need to resolve that problem.

You need to put the past behind you and move on, don't worry what others think of you.

Good Luck

Answer 3

hmmm, could it be that this is the affect you get when you reach puberty, everyone is different, people tend to be a little nervous or even a little frightened. And in your case its losing your flair. But people can change, and little confidants can go along way. i suggest you keep your good friends close, sharing with them. You are not a loser. you just need to be more sociable, and your friends can help you, try meeting new people. its a good idea to go to a new school, and turn over a new leaf. i hope you will be OK.

Answer 4

People move at different paces. It is natural for friendships to die off as you get older - they tend to be replaced with better quality friendships. As far as creativity maybe now is the time to pick up again. It is amazing how out of practice you can get and amazing how new situations can get the blood flowing again.

Answer 5

Someone or some event may have changed you. To change back first try enrolling in home schooling (to boost your creativity and not let others tell you what to do). To change back your attitudes try remembering how you lived before, who you were with and how you did things, and then try living them out again.
good luck!